Ok so im 15 and my bf is 18 i love him to death. We have been together for 6 mounths and 29 days. My parents dont like him cause he cuts but they dont know i do too. I love him so much but like i have guy friends from before i met him that i like to hang out with and he dont want me to hang out wit them unless i have him or another girl with me but none of my gfs live close to me so its hard to do that cause i sneek out to see them idk what to do should i just go hang out with them against his wishes, break up with him, or stop hanging out wit my home bois.
2007-03-17 14:32:09 · 11 answers · asked by Life is to short to live in the past 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
we havent had sex and dont plan to until im atleast 17
2007-03-17 14:39:19 · update #1
i dont share blades im not that stupid
2007-03-17 14:53:07 · update #2
i have my reasons for cutting if you wanna know what they are im me
2007-03-17 14:59:23 · update #3
nobody knows i cut i got sent to P.V. a couple years ago and they thought i stoped when i got out but i didnt some of the girls that were there told me where to put them to hide them the only one that knows is my bf and you guys
2007-03-17 17:04:46 · update #4
TELL YOUR PARENTS YOU WANT TO GET MARRIEDAND YOU WANT THEM TO SIGN THE PAPERS TO LET YOU GET MARRIED
2007-03-17 14:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 7⤋
OK, being as I'm a little bit older and I know a bit about this situation, my advice to you is that parents usually know best. Sneaking around with him is only going to disrupt your relationship with your parents and trust me, you will get caught. The fact that he is telling you that you can not hang out with your friends is a warning sign. Control issues, which start with telling you who and who you can not hang out with, are beginning signs of a bigger problem. You are only 15, you are not married to this guy, and he has no right telling you what you can do.
I know it is hard to hear but trust me from experience. You are still young and you have plenty of time for boyfriends. If your parents see that something is not right with this guy, there probably is a problem! I've been in your shoes before.
2007-03-17 21:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need a little alone time, yes you might love him and you should always hand out with your friends. I am not going to tell you what to do, but cutting is a serious problem and it needs immediate attention, please talk with someone about this, until you are better you need to find another crowd to hang with b/c the people you think that are your friends are not if they can't help you stop inflicting pain on yourself... Good luck in life!
2007-03-17 23:15:50 · answer #3 · answered by TM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please think seriously about this. There are several red flags going up here. This relationship is illegal and your "boyfriend" is commiting a crime. Your are a child and he is an adult. If you truly care about him, stop seeing him before your relationship gets him thrown in jail. Please talk to your parents or a trusted adult about your cutting so you can get some help. It is also a bad sign that he's jealous of your other male friends and is trying to control who you can spend time with. Unjustified jealous behavior is usually just a start and can lead to more serious problems. Seriously, I know you think you love him but he is taking advantage of you. Don't give up... there are many boys your age that you can involve yourself in healthy relationships with.
2007-03-18 00:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by talon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should break up with him if he's getting jealous. And that age difference seems pretty big since you're still in high school.
And you should talk to your parents about your cutting.
2007-03-17 21:39:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should break up with him.
you boyfriend cuts himself because of control issues, cutting himself is the only thing he is in control of if that makes any sense? and first of all, it starts with telling you who you cna hang out with, then what you can wear, what you should eat, and where you should go, then who you can talk to and he'll end up dominating your whole life, get out of the relasionship before it gets that far okay?
2007-03-17 22:49:16 · answer #6 · answered by rollin with the homies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hate to bring this topic up but you are too young for someone of his age throughout the United States/UK. Your parents can, if they want to, destroy/break your relationship with someone of his age. Unfortunately I am not making this up, if you want to see an age of consent map, please follow the link below.
I would break up with him altogether.
About the slitting wrist option, stop, it doesn't do anything, and you can contract HIV/AIDS from infected knives if you share them or other fatal diseases.
2007-03-17 21:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you even cutting yourself? Why do people talk about doing these things as if it's O.K.? o.O
2007-03-17 21:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that girls problems but try to have a boy friend youger your age
2007-03-17 22:55:13 · answer #9 · answered by bad boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with ur friend because with be with u no matter ur
decision
2007-03-17 21:36:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your parents should charge him with statutory rape. you're 15. wait to grow up before you get a serious boyfriend.
2007-03-17 21:37:00 · answer #11 · answered by Medic Jenn 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋