i thout he was gay but when i meet him for a coffe he said hes inlove with me (even tho he has a boyfriend) i thout he was joking but he was serios haha this is funny. I have no such feelings for him as im very inlove with my hubby and we're expecting a baby as well :) i told him that but he said he can take care of the baby if thats the problem and i was looking at him stunned and amazed of this stupid situation... he said he well be waiting maiby who knows in the future i might think about him and i should know hes always there for me lol
what do you thing of this?
2007-03-17 13:19:43 · 8 answers · asked by Tina 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
NOO people don't get me so wrong I DO NOT DATE OR LOVE this guy!!! I hardly so him and we meet up to catch up becuase on the phone he was talking to me about hes new boyfriend and I thout he wanted to tell me more about that. i was happy to hear he has somebody... we were always JUST FRIENDS until he said hes inlove with me I have NO felling for him whatsoever and i always looked at him as a FRIEND only! i'll probably never talk to him again after that anyway.
2007-03-17 13:29:18 · update #1
You need to end your friendship relationship with this guy. If he knows you are happily married, and have no interest in him, but he is coming on to you, he is not a good person to be around. Don't meet with him again, cancel any future plans, tell him you are busy every time he calls. Better for you and your husband and your baby. Saying he will take care of your baby is really creepy.
2007-03-17 13:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is probably more common than you would imagine...
Many gay people feel "left out" of the family lifestyle... when they see a young pregnant lady (especially a close friend) they might just want a piece of the action and not know the right ways to get involved.
The best thing that you can do for your friend is involve him at a level that you feel comfortable with - like saying - maybe when I have a day off, you can help me pick out some baby clothes or something for the nursery...
But if he tries too hard to involve himself in your private life then maybe it's time to distance yourself from the friendship.
Nothing against him but you don't want people to feel too comfortable getting in the way of your family just because their lifestyle does not permit them to have children of their own just yet. It is not his fault - but it isn't yours either.
2007-03-17 13:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by rabble rouser 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's a danger that everybody can fall in love with everybody, regardless of race, way of life or origins. If this arab guy is actual sweet on you you, then there is not any clarification why you won't be able to make it artwork for an further. even if, you want to be totally conscious that the arab fee of life should be different on your own, now to not teach non secular beliefs. as long as you stay attentive to means adjustments and communicate them via with one yet another, you should include it and revel in it. in simple terms look after your emotions, because you sound like you're head over hills in love with him and if he's not a similar, then in some unspecified time sooner or later you receives damage. stay risk-free.
2016-11-26 19:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by jorelus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like kind of a sick puppy to me. But who knows what the future may bring. You might be in a situation some time in the future where you might be glad to have him as a friend.
2007-03-17 13:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey, men are STILL men!
Women are STILL women!
I have seen a lesbian couple? that after 9 years of beign together, found her one day with uhhh, yeah, thats right, a man!
People try to rebel against their natural predisposition, but it just does NOT work!
2007-03-17 13:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah the guy is trying to get a baby out of you. you have baby are then ashamed then let him have it you lose hubby . i know that you don't want to im just saying that's what he is trying.
2007-03-17 13:36:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thing your a silly young lady for even thinking about leaving you husband,who i presume you love,break up with this guy,it could ruin your whole life
2007-03-17 13:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by fatdadslim 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I think its your baby he wants not you he is gay!
2007-03-17 13:26:37 · answer #8 · answered by Leah 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋