2007-03-17 13:16:42 · 18 answers · asked by William Y 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
whenever I was younger if a guy just quit calling or coming around I would end up breaking up with him. Or just tell her you think your too young to be in a relationship.
2007-03-17 13:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by texas mom 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is a 16 year old girl...not hurting her feelings is just going to be impossible. No matter how nicely you break up with her, there will be tears and drama. She is 16, she has plenty of time to find someone else. Explain to her why the relationship is not working and why it needs to end. If you are breaking up with her just because she won't have sex with you, then you are jerk, and don't tell her that is the reason why...just come up with something else. Hope this helps.
2007-03-17 20:26:07 · answer #2 · answered by chapel_bluff 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is going to be almost impossible to not hurt a 16 year olds' feelings. The best thing to do is just to start slowly hinting that your feelings have changed. Let her think she came up with the idea. At least that is what I would do. I remember the first time I got dumped by a real boyfriend, it hurt so bad that for the next couple of months I would spit on his new girlfriend. No joke!
2007-03-17 20:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by JennTarbox 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you probably wont be able to break up with her without hurting her but if you don't love her or want to be with her just tell her cause think about it would you want a girlfriend that didnt want you back? just explain to her how you feel, yes she's going to be emotional but most teenage girl will be just don't be a jerk about it and keep in touch with her and be her friend so she wont feel as bad
2007-03-20 21:58:10 · answer #4 · answered by Amber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always some form of pain with any break up. You're not going to be able to avoid it...but at least be a "man" about it and do it face to face.
2007-03-17 20:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if your an adult (20-50yrs. old) YOU ARE CORRUPTING MINOR! but for me its ok coz as you can see age does not matter in luv...
in breaking up, HURT can be felt! (if she truly luv you!)
well, I have a sugetion,
try to go in the church and go in one chair, and KNEEL together, hold her hand tightly, Say ,"I LUV YOU" then face to the front and say, "I will always luv you but in order to do it lets try to sepparate" hehe just try this....
2007-03-17 22:07:57 · answer #6 · answered by Mr.ME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her in a nice tone Sorry it is not working out maybe it will sooner or later so i sm sorry don't cry! and leave with a hug!
2007-03-17 20:21:19 · answer #7 · answered by Ladybug Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, how old are you?
You probally will hurt her no matter what you do or say. Just do it. She will find someone better. Good luck!
2007-03-17 20:20:41 · answer #8 · answered by michaellandonsmommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is nearly impossible girls are just so nieve at that age and they dont know what they are feeling they all cry because thats what they do in all the movies and thats how theyre supposed to act but please let her down gently and dont use its not u its me or something like that
2007-03-17 22:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by living the life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet you spend all day wondering how to make an omelet without breaking the poor egg, too.
Tell you are gay. lol Then when she sees you with another girl, tell her you are gay, lesbian gay,
2007-03-17 20:49:53 · answer #10 · answered by Big C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋