my best friends are both pregnant and i dont want to feel left out wat should id o
2007-03-17 13:14:06 · 15 answers · asked by skippy peanut butter 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
i dont need critisim i need guidence help onli 13 yrs old
2007-03-17 13:22:25 · update #1
Dont do it....... dont bring a baby in the world for this reason...... wait until you are in a relationship and can afford to raise a baby.... wait until you are willing to give up your Friday and Saturday nights to stay home and change dirty diapers....
If I was you, I would wait. Have a happy Saint Patrick's day!
2007-03-17 13:19:21 · answer #1 · answered by michaellandonsmommy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Babies are not toys. If you want something to show off then go get an adorable puppy. If it doesn't work out with the puppy you can give it away or sell it. Babies require a lot more than ANYONE your age is ready to give. At your age you should be thinking about how to get your parents to give you a new cellphone for Christmas. Babies are emotionally and financially taxing on loving, secure adults! If you don't believe me then wait a year and see what your friends say then.
2007-03-17 23:38:07 · answer #2 · answered by mamasonny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you want for someone to say yes go get pregnant
Let me ask you this
if you friends decide to kill theselves will you do it
I bet that you will not
but you will feel sorry for them
well that what you should do now feel sorry for them
because if they are your age they are in a lot of trouble
while you will be able to go out without worry about babysitter they won't be able too
So you stay in school and enjoy been 13 and not pregnant
at least give yourself a few years
2007-03-17 21:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hello No... If they jump off a bridge would you jump too? Only have baby when you are ready for a baby. Babies cost money and can be down right stressful! When its your time you will now.
Friends can tend to act as if their life is much better than urs but it might not even be like that. Ur day is coming ... Best Wishes!
2007-03-17 20:39:10 · answer #4 · answered by Bre'Oona 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until you are ready. Pregnancy isn't a popularity contest nor something induced by peer pressure.
All of my friends have children already and I am pregnant now, but never got pregnant just to be like my friends.
2007-03-17 20:18:54 · answer #5 · answered by hollilynn 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY! You are only 13? I feel bad for your friends to be in such a situation at such a young age! The best thing for you right now is to be supportive of your friends. Wait and see just how hard it is to take care of a baby. You'll be thankful you don't have one. I had my 1st one at 26 years old, and it is TOUGH! Please, honey, get your education, grow, find who you are in this world. Don't have a baby.
2007-03-17 20:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by Connie B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't recommend going out and getting prego if you are not ready just b/c your friends are having babies. Having a baby is a BIG commitment. Babies require a lot of time, energy and naturally love. If you and your partner are ready then that is great.
2007-03-17 20:20:58 · answer #7 · answered by krispeds 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is that the new trend? You seem very selfish and immature, wait till you are older, hopefully you will be a little smarter by then.
2007-03-17 20:26:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not get pregnant just because everyone else is. That is a stupid reason to have a child. Have one because you are ready to and want to.
2007-03-17 20:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by gEt In ThE cAr [DaRnIt] 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you no, you are only 13 so no. You are still a child, you aren't stable with a job, school even. just wait.
2007-03-18 23:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by Nattiedred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋