I'm bi at 14 and I am wondering how I can get a girl friend. Because i have had a few before but they started it and not me. And i have no clue how they got me into them so how can I get a girl to like me and maintain a good relationship?
2007-03-17 13:07:33 · 17 answers · asked by Michelle 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
im 14 and im bi to! ok so i admitted i was bi about 2 months ago, and i got a girlfriend right now weve been goin out for like about 2 monthes and were so deep in love, and seriosu love not stupid teenage love. my advice cause i know exactly where your coming from, is just let it happen, your not gonna be able to go searchin for a girlfriend at school, it just happens if you like some girl, and they like you back it will just happen, dont force it. if i never wouldve admitted i was bi than i wouldnt have a gf right now. once you admit it then you will start gettin some gf's
this exact thing happened to me soo trust me =]
goodluck!
2007-03-17 13:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
14 is about the time i started wondering and you know what you have to let it just happen. I am 18 now and had a boyfriend and a girlfriend. I loved them both but i am single at the moment. If your in a big city search the internet for a place for gay lesbian bi transgender teens. that might help you grow a larger base in which you can pull from. when you do find a girl act natural, don't force things and don't sell yourself short. If they like you they like you and that is pretty much about it. Don't change for someone, and don't get discouraged okay. Compliment and don't be afraid to be open.
2007-03-17 21:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by midnytebloodlust2 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're 14 and you have had a few before?? And you date boys too? When do you have time for all this dating and school and family? I guess you are SuperBiGirl. I couldnt handle dating one guy and schoolwork at your age! Geez! times change.
2007-03-24 22:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by Rosanna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
@ 14 you should be focusing in school not dating, you're too young and have a lot of time to try different things, and meet so many people. Books before dating.
2007-03-23 21:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by nutty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im 14 and bi and i wuld just try looking for some one who you like and get to kno them talk tu them and flirt and just slowly hook up with them then you guys can determine whether the other person bi but message me
2007-03-24 20:56:47 · answer #5 · answered by kiwiz101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to concentrate on learning the skills you will need to make a life for yourself. The rest will come latter. Life is hard for people who don't prepare themselves.
2007-03-17 20:12:53 · answer #6 · answered by djm749 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are only 14 and plenty of time for these things.
you are still growing up and experiencing new things all the time
2007-03-17 20:11:12 · answer #7 · answered by claire S 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you mean a friend, just look for her and you will find.
2007-03-24 14:22:37 · answer #8 · answered by Maria Monsegur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest meeting a girl get to know her and then decide weather or not if you want to get into a relationship with her...........
2007-03-24 11:34:46 · answer #9 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion, you should not be dating until you are 16. the maturity cells are not there yet.
2007-03-23 12:51:40 · answer #10 · answered by Tammy T 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋