I've already asked this question but i didnt get a good answer, I'm changing in a bad way, I'm going goth, I'm getting into rap, r&b, hip hop, and rock.... I cut my wrist back in December, and my family and friends hate it how im changing... what should I do? much thanks.
2007-03-17 13:06:22 · 15 answers · asked by Kaitlyn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i dont care about myself one bit, but i dont want my family and friends to hate me...
2007-03-17 13:15:42 · update #1
the answers didnt help me because there was only 2 answers and none of em said "u need help"..........
2007-03-17 13:35:20 · update #2
Since you know what your doing is wrong by cutting yourself. Seek help. Talk to a guidance conseler. Tell your parents you need a psycolgist or something. But the other stuff you can't change who you are.
2007-03-17 13:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is for sure that your family and friends aren't connecting with you. You don't need somebody saying you shouldn't do that. You already know that. Depending where you live there should be help lines. It may sound strange but go to a pay phone so the cops can't trace your number and call the cops. Ask for help line numbers for cutters, suicide, teens or what ever situation best fits you. You might not get the best answer the first time, but you will eventually get a good answer.
GOOD LUCK.
2007-03-17 13:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by ttpawpaw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i have to say if you now you are changing for the bad then you need to look deep down into your heart and soul and find the strength to pull yourself back out. There has to be something in your life that has changed in a way that makes you want to act out like this. Cutting yourself is no answer to anything you really need to talk to someone. there is nothing worth killing yourself over I personally have been through a lot of stuff my self and never once did i try to kill myself. You have to learn from the bad and good in your life pull yourself up and keep going. I hope that everything goes well for you.
2007-03-17 13:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by Kimberly M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow - you're "cutting?!?" That is NOT good... I'm guessing that you are in school (K through 12)? If so - if you live in a metropolitan area, your school should have a Counselor. Seek him or her out!!!
Everyone "rebels" a little as a teenager, because you're starting to seek your independence (from your parents). But, with you harming yourself - if you don't feel comfortable talking with your parents, and a Counselor is not available, try an Aunt / Uncle, or even a friend's parent.
Good luck!
2007-03-17 13:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by hotstuffktr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just by saying you need help tells me that you already know you need help so go get help! Cutting, dressing for attention and listening to loud music all scream notice me and see that I am lonely and want your help!
There is no answer that you will like because you are not ready to hear it yet!
2007-03-17 13:12:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you going goth because you want to, or is it peer pressure? If you're doing it because your friends are doing it then you need to be your own person, not who your friends want you to be.
If you're doing it because you want to, well then you are headed in the wrong direction & I think you already know that.
Your family cares about you, do you care about you?
2007-03-17 13:11:41 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you didn't like the advise people gave you because it wasn't what you wanted to read. You need counseling because cutting your wrist is not normal. You are mad inside and don't know how to express it
2007-03-17 13:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by honeybunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! I'm SOOO sorry! The music part isn't that bad... But talk to ur family or a therapist! Or sumthing! Don't hurt urself!
2007-03-17 13:11:23 · answer #8 · answered by Danielle( = 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move at a stedy pase. slowly try to go back to the way you where. ask a friend to help you. it also might help if you talk to some one. you can always talk to me. My email is
big_bird99829@yahoo.com
think of the thigd you did back then,(wrist) did cuting them even help with the stress you had. talking is the best thing. go at a stedy pase. i have faith in you. you can do it.=)
2007-03-17 13:15:42 · answer #9 · answered by Karri booboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, in life, people go through many stages. the real question is, do you like how you are changing? in the end, only you can change yourself into the person you want to become.
2007-03-17 13:10:18 · answer #10 · answered by love 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋