are they really that dense or do they just not understand women at all? Case in point, I finally got strong enough to move forward with my life after this last two years, the divorce and everything. I put all the old pics away, and everything else that reminded me of the good we had between us, and then he shows up at my front door. unnanounced, to give me pictures from our wedding he had in a box. Pics with him and I and just him etc... It threw me... I began to think I was seeing signs he was going to come back and that I should wait or something... He knew I was getting stronger as I stopped calling him and everything... is that why he did it? To make me remember how much I loved him? or just to mess with me?
2007-03-17 12:54:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is "just messin' with your mind"! Do not allow him to do that any more! Live your life!!
2007-03-17 13:02:28 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Even when relationships don't work out, there is always lingering doubt and unresolved issues. I think we wonder if there was something that could have been done differently, if the decision to break up was smart, etc. My guess is that he might have just gone through something....maybe a bad incident with a new girl...that made him miss you and the old times.
2007-03-17 20:04:55 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just trying to clear awya stuff too and he thought maybe you wanted these pictures. Stop getting all paranoid just get on with your life he had his chance and well he blew it. Time to find a new guy and well to blunt get some action if that is what you want.
God Bless and good Luck
2007-03-17 20:04:42 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop giving him so much thought. Who cares why he did what he did. If you are done, keep moving forward and don't look back. There is a reason he is the x. Good luck and God bless****
2007-03-17 20:15:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men are useless a@#holes who love nothing more than destroying women's lives.
I would have had a big bonfire with the pics in front of his house.
2007-03-17 19:59:49 · answer #5 · answered by icequeen_ah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that he is playing games. It was either his last effort to show that he cares, or bc you stopped calling he thinks that is it, and thought you might want them, and used it as an excus e to see you again. Did you talk that day, or were they dropped off and he left?
2007-03-17 20:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like you two should have never divorced. Probably some stupid reason why you got divorced in the first place.
2007-03-17 19:58:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are freaked out.
2007-03-17 19:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wants you back?
2007-03-17 20:06:30 · answer #9 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋