2007-03-17 12:31:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
No , each child has his/her own bond . Even if you have a hundred.
2007-03-17 12:34:11 · answer #1 · answered by Sugar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 4 kids and I haven't found the bonding to be less with each newborn. I have found that the older kids and mom tend to drift apart as the demands of taking care of a newborn put so much stress on the family life.
If a mom has suffered from Post Partum Depression, there can be problems bonding, especially if the PPD gets more severe after each child. That's the only time I can think of that bonding is not as strong.
2007-03-17 12:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by Julie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am due 4weeks with my third. All the kids are 4 yrs. apart. The bond has never decreased when a baby was born the bonds just change as each child grows up and different needs are needed.
2007-03-21 12:12:10 · answer #3 · answered by sittinncat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not as long as you put the time into each individual child. I'm 26 and have 3 precious children. I had alot of problems with the birth of my oldest child and lost the first 2 days of his life but he is nearly 5 now and we have a very strong bond. I have a stronger bond with my second child who is nearly 3 and my daughter who is nearly 1 is just the apple of my eye and my princess. I know that alot of mother's think that they don't have enough time in one day to deal with the housework and the children, but you just have to hang in there and not be afraid to ask for help from those that care about you even if you are like me and don't like to ask for it
2007-03-17 12:43:53 · answer #4 · answered by mary c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not for me! And I really thought it would. I was surprised that I have just as strong a bond with my second child as I do with my first. And it is so cool watching my boys bond with each other... and they're only 2 1/2yrs and 4 months old!
2007-03-17 13:01:21 · answer #5 · answered by Kynthia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. It's different, that's for sure. I think a lot of the "bond" with the first is because it's your FIRST! You become a mom. It's the first time you become terrified to lose your child, the first time you know what all this fuss is about, the first time you realize that you love something more than you love yourself. That first time mom feeling never happens again, so it feels different with the first than the second (third, fourth, etc), but otherwise it just gets better and better!
2007-03-17 12:40:27 · answer #6 · answered by kaseandannasmom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. I love each of my kids the same and the bond just becomes better as each grows older.
2007-03-21 03:45:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way, each child is an individual and you love them that way. There's something special about each. Each is different but you will love them all!
2007-03-21 05:34:08 · answer #8 · answered by QT314 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No..It's just a different kind of bond with each one..
With my oldest..It's a mother/daughter bond..She's my friend too..
With my oldest son..He's a momma's boy..He loves to cook and spend time with me..As he gets older..The time is less..But his hormones are nuts..lol..16 yo..
With my youngest..it's been hard..as he has several disabilities..And to be honest..I don't understand them alot of times..But I love him..and hug him..just I did the others at his age..
Now when you have grandkids..Ouchy momma..The bond is as if they were your own..At least for my hubby and I..Love them grandbabies..
2007-03-17 12:38:14 · answer #9 · answered by Havin' a good day.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! You will find that you have more love than you knew that you had and will love each child for their own individual reasons and personalities!
2007-03-17 12:34:29 · answer #10 · answered by BeThAnY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋