i met my friend about 7month ago and just recently she told me she was bi and had kissed a girl, now i keep thinking i might be! we get on really well and for some reason i keep thinking about us kissing is that wrong?
2007-03-17 12:24:48 · 22 answers · asked by mehappyness 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't b so paranoid. If ur really thinking about it that much, then try kissing her and c how it feels.
2007-03-17 12:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by angelfire22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, your mind has just been exposed to the unknown threw your friend telling you she's bi, for example if I told you, hey! you can sing very well you should be a star. for a minute you would stop and think hey could I really be a star, its not that your star material its just you have been exposed to the idea of being a star. so your not bi you have just been exposed to the idea of being bi.
Now you thinking about kissing her is not wrong per say, But if you act on it, that would be wrong, an I'm going to tell you why. mother nature was not meant for females to kiss females and guys to kiss guys. Open your mind to this theory and you will understand and don't take it the wrong way, you really must think about this to understand it. The rare essence of life is controlled by mother nature or some would say god or whatever u believe in. if you think about the most disgusting creature on earth lets say a rat or a roach, they might be nasty but you will never see a rat or a roach mate with the same sex because it goes against the laws of life itself. So ask yourself this question if a rat or a roach would not mate with the same sex why would a human do it. Sorry to say but gay people are 1 step from being the lower then a rat or a roach.
humm Im goin to get alot of hate mail for this answer haha!
2007-03-17 19:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by good_business08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
had you ever thoguht about kissing a girl before this? do you have any other bi mates?
if the answer to both is no, then thats your answer!
your only thinking about it because you havent came across anyone else like that, at least not in close contact and you are interested in her as a friend and a little curious about her life
2007-03-17 19:32:10 · answer #3 · answered by laneyb_1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be a lesbian or you might be bi. Either way, it is not wrong to want to kiss her. It is wrong to force anyone to kiss or have sex if they don't want to. Send me a message if you want a chat! Take care.
2007-03-21 14:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by james c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if the thought just keeps popping into ur head u r probably a little disturbed by ur friends sexuality, but if when u think about it u reall want to do it then u might actually be bisexual or lesbian
2007-03-17 19:28:20 · answer #5 · answered by melanie h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong...it's curiosity.... that doesn't make you gay or bi...necessarily...even if you try it once.
If you continue to do it afterwards cuz you enjoy it...then you might be gay or bi....but remember....just because she is bi...doesn't mean she is willing to try it with you. Tread carefully.
It's a time of discovery for you......good luck.
2007-03-17 20:05:00 · answer #6 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're thinking about kissing another girl, it might mean you are bi/gay
there's nothing wrong with this
try it out if you're comforatable with it and see what its like
2007-03-17 19:28:00 · answer #7 · answered by shambles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for people to want to explore different sexualities. There's nothing wrong with it. Think about what you want and how you feel and do what you think is right.
2007-03-17 19:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong, maybe you should get together with your friend, experiment, at least then you'll know if you prefer women or men, or both.
Good luck
2007-03-18 20:18:58 · answer #9 · answered by buffykim2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah why would you kiss a girl thats plane disgusting to kiss the same sex
2007-03-17 19:32:16 · answer #10 · answered by avery c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋