A few years ago I got into middle school, and I became friends with my current best friend. Now, the best friend I have now, and the best friend I had before are best friends. My newer best friend barely talks to me anymore, and same with my other best friend. I have other friends, and other best friends, but this still really bugs me. I don't want to talk to them about it, because I don't thinl they'll get it, and they really judge people by what they say; and I don't know what to say. What should I do?
2007-03-17 12:23:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This has been going on for over 1/2 year.
2007-03-17 12:32:07 · update #1
You don't need all that drama. Life has more important things to worry about than 2 girls who have obviously dumped you so they can be friends with each other.
Just ignore them & hang out with your other friends.
2007-03-17 12:34:34 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just realize that people change. Keep all your friends. BE a true friend. The current and new best friends are tight because it's a new relationship for them. The novelty of the friendship will wear off soon enough. I know it hurts, but that happens when you change schools and new people are thrown into the mix. Just try to have fun and be a kid as long as you can. Your old bf will realize soon enough that you've always been there for her.
2007-03-17 12:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by pookiemct07 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are truly your best friend then you should be able to go and tell them what you think and how you feel. They should be understanding and care for you and if they don't you know that they aren't truly your friends in the first place especially if they are Judge mental as you say they are. Best friends are all about being there for one another no matter what. friends are one type but best friends is another. So choose your friends wisely and the only ones you will know are truly your friends is the ones you know who truly cares and is there for you and not for themselves.
God Bless You And Take Care!!!
2007-03-17 12:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by Angelina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if your really that scared to talk to your best friend then she really isnt your best friend.you should be able to talk to your best friend about anything and not be scared .also when you have a group of friends with time it changes like for example.i have 2 best friends .sometimes im closer with one and dont even talk to the other for a while .it happens .dont take it to the heart .im sure they will come around again .
2007-03-17 12:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't sound like friends real friends anyway. Real friends don't judge you on what you say. Real friends don't judge you real friends don't do thing like you (best friends) do.
2007-03-17 12:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by C.K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go for it and talk to them if they are not already talking to you that much then you should take a chance theirs not much they can do id they don't like what you are saying to them. you can get your friends back!
good luck!
2007-03-17 12:28:50 · answer #6 · answered by majewskis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, u must talk to them about it, unless u don't care for them..if they didn't like it..then u can know who's ur best friend..
goodluck
2007-03-17 12:34:44 · answer #7 · answered by A. H. Mukhaimer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who whants to be friends with some peplz when they ignor u. just a thaught
2007-03-20 02:29:17 · answer #8 · answered by Lise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like omg like omg like get like a new bff for life
uhh not
move on with ur life
seriously
2007-03-17 12:28:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u have other f and best f so get rid of her or hem
2007-03-17 12:27:31 · answer #10 · answered by cew4000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋