Any tips to break this addiction ?

Question

This is my problem . I am in a place where sex can be bought very easily . Not that far from my home, there are many beautiful leadies stand and invite for sex for 100 $ .( I am not in US ) . For me , this has become an addiction now . This is started from 2 years back & I have spent too much money for this. I am sorry I don't want to calculate that because that only makes me sad. I have very high regret now. I want o break this addiction and start having a normal life. Please help me by giving practical tips. Please don't say forget about sex. I don't have a girlfriend. I am trying now but no luck .

Answer 1

Addiction is addiction..seek counseling...

Answer 2

1.Move to a different location or country, where prostitution is illegal.
2. You could try looking for a meeting of Sexaholics Anonymous (a companion group of AA), or Love Addicts Anonymous..
3. Maybe voluntary castration is legal in your country. Or ask a doctor for some medicine that has a side effect of killing your libido (chemical castration.)
4. Stay away from the area where the ladies line up.
5. Realize that ordinary habit-breaking methods will not work.
6. Cultivate masturbation, daily, as often as needed. Don't leave your home without milking yourself.
7. Have someone else manage your money and pay your bills, allowing you no more than $25/day.

Good luck.

Answer 3

Sex is definitely an addition. And having it easily accessible is not helpful to breaking the addiction. If you are serious try doing something else productive. Work two jobs by the time you get home you are too exhusted to engage in any sexual activity, on the flip side, you'll have more money to have more sex. Maybe you should join sex anoymous . I guess just being active in other things and stay preoccupied with other things like school (where you can meet a girl). Or simply move to another less prostituted location

Answer 4

Get a jar. And once a week, instead of doing what you usually do, put $100 in the jar and go read a book. Don't quit all together, but start very slowly. Every time you don't give in to temptation, put $100 in the jar. Soon, you'll have a lot of money. Do whatever you want with this money (just not what you usually do). You'll be shocked at how quickly the money will add up. If once a week goes ok, then try adding money to the jar twice a week. Good luck!

Answer 5

The best way to break an addiction is to replace it with something that satisfies the need. You understand your behavior is not good. Don't let yourself do it anymore.

Take up another activity. I would recommend exercise. It takes more energy, and if you do it right, you'll be too tired when you get home to think of anything but getting rest.
Use the money to get a membership at a gym and don't use it for prostitutes. That's tearing you down - stay away from it.

Answer 6

Addictions are hard to break. They are rooted deep ion the sub-conscious. Humans are creatures of habit and once you have developed a habit or routine, it can be hard to break out of.

I strongly recommend trying some hypnotherapy. This is available on the web through audio downloads, or you can learn through books yourself. Alternatively you can book an appointment with a hypnotherapist. Maybe start on the internet, try some audio donwloads that combat addiction and sexual hangups. If struggle on your own, then maybe book in with a hypnotherapist.

It is the most sure-fire way to reprogram the way your most inner desires and habits work.

Good luck!

DeMarco, of 'Harder Longer Stronger'

Answer 7

hey Star,
Listen.Even if you had a girlfriend it would not necessarily help you.Some people that have alot of sex say that it is just the way they are(All though I have doubts about that)and maybe that is the case with you.I would guess not.Addictions are just a way to deal with stress.Some people have more stress then others and it would be futile for anyone to try to help you without knowing more about you.Give the $100 to a good therapist.It will be well spent and you won't regret it.
Good luck.

Answer 8

I'm sorry for you. You say that you don't have a girlfriend and as long as you continue to pay for sex, you will never have a girlfriend. Your idea of women will be so warped as viewing them from a perspective of something to buy, that it will become impossible to see them as anything more than objects that you can pay for. That will make it almost impossible to connect with one and to form an intimate bond with a woman who you could share time with in order to build a meaningful relationship. You need to go cold turkey to kick this habit and abstain from sex for a period of time. At least six months to a year, then try to connect with a woman on an intimate basis looking at her as a human being, and not merchandise for purposes of pleasure.

Answer 9

Addictions are real and they're hard to break whatever their form - sex, porn, smoking, drinking, etc. You probably need to get a couselor for help with this one; you can put your money to that instead! Seriously, you probably can't do it without some kind of help. And quick! If it's not too late already, there are some diseases out there that can cause you some real problems.

Answer 10

first off, MOVE. start a new life else where. of course don't forget about sex, but clean up your act. no girl wants a beat up old sex fiend. go to a place you know you are going to meet a decent girl, and for heaven sake, don't bring up your past to her, EVER. or you won't stand a chance. change your life style...it is not too late... $100 bucks a clip, geez you could most likely have a home by now....or close....

Answer 11

Replacing your addition with something else is good. It will help distract you from wanting sex.

The only way to beat an addiction is to remove it comepletely. I know you said "Please don't say forget about sex." Yet that is exactly what you need to do to remove this lusting addiction.

Remove the addiction and replace it with something that will distract you from wanting it.