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Well first of all find out for sure. the msot important thing you can do fot your child id RESPECT yourself and make positive decisions for yourself and your child!! IMO it is not respecting you if you are with a man who is cheating!! I know it is hard to come the this conculsion however you have to be strong to be a good parent, and sometimes doing the right thing isnt always the easiest!!! What would you want your daughter to do?????Stay in this type of relationship of move on with her head held high and seek better for herself??/??/ Seems simple for me I know im not the one going thru it, but honey ou have to put the baby and yourself first, dont settle, be strong and most of all be a good role model for your child!!! Best of Luck to you!@!!!!

2007-03-21 16:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by hairstyle 3 · 0 0

now whether or not u are married has nothing to do with this cause he could have still cheated on you being married <~ that is to some of the responses above. Sweetie first you need to have proof that he is cheating on you before you make this life changing decision.Then from there if he is you need to truly belive in yourself that you can make it on your own with this baby on the way , Or decide whether or not you can get passed this deceit .Things are so much easier said then done and only you can decide what truly is the best thing for you to do .........Good Luck!

2007-03-17 12:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by samiyahlynn 2 · 0 0

The same as if you were not pregnant. Find out if he really is cheating first and if he is, get rid of his ***

For all those very judgemental people out there, Guess What??
SOME MARRIED MEN CHEAT ALSO!! So dont act like if she was married it wouldnt happen!!

2007-03-17 12:16:23 · answer #3 · answered by Oops! 6 · 3 0

Tell Him your pregnant..and confront him about the cheating..just be like i dont want to start a fight or anything..i just want to kno if your cheating and then if he says yes,,, he is... Either tell him you think your pregnant or not tell him.... Take a Pregnancy test!

2007-03-25 11:26:26 · answer #4 · answered by jenny 5 · 0 0

Are you still sleeping with him? cause if he is cheating and he's sleeping with someone else he might put you and the baby at risk.
Does he know you feel this way? talk to him about it and if your still not sure, try to abstain from any sexual acts with him.
One thing you dont need when your pregnant is stress, dont think too much about this just to protect yourself and the innocent life.

All the best

2007-03-23 06:15:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

first things first, you need to find out if he's really cheating. i had the same thing happen to me when i was pregnant with my first child. i worked an 11pm-7pm shift and we had two beds, a twin bed and a king size bed that pulled out from the wall and when i wasn't home he would sleep in the twin bed. when i came home in the morning the king size bed was down, thats how i figured something was up. he went to work that morning i went snooping around the house! i even put gloves on and went snooping in the trash, i was desperate to find out what was up. i found a used condom in an empty cereal box in the trash! i set the cereal bag with the used condom in it on the coffee table and waited until he got home and didn't say anything to him. he saw it on the coffee table and asked me "whats this?" i said "you tell me!" obviously he had no choice but to confess EVERYTHING. needless to say, i showed him the door! oh, did i mention all of this happened on valentine's day!

2007-03-21 08:53:38 · answer #6 · answered by moore_256 3 · 0 0

If he is cheating on you at such a stressful and special time of your relationships and your life it would be best for you to leave. It will probably all go down hill from here on out. I wish you the best. You will find a faithful man who will love you and your baby.

2007-03-17 12:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by Mandie 4 · 0 0

Get an STD test, it could hurt the baby if you have something. Seek counsel with a family member, teacher, religious leader, whoever it is that you trust. Obviously you have doubts about this guy, put your health and the possibility of motherhood ahead of him as your first priority and make your desicions. Then deal with him.

2007-03-24 14:11:45 · answer #8 · answered by Serena L 2 · 0 0

you should confront him about it, people say there boyfriends stop wanting to have sex with there gf when there pregnant or after they have there baby. i no its scary me an my boyfriend are 700 miles apart, and were havin a baby, but i hope everything works out for your guys!

and even though ppl are saying you should have waited untelled your married, some times it is unexpected, and married guys cheat just as much as ppl who arent married.

2007-03-17 12:14:38 · answer #9 · answered by [[I am the mess you chose]] 2 · 0 0

Get rid of him and go after him for child support when the baby is born! The last thing you need when your pregnant is that kind of stress.

2007-03-25 11:18:54 · answer #10 · answered by Chrissy 1 · 0 0

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