i have an older sister (little less than 2 years older to be exact) who doesnt live with me cause she lives with my aunt and i can rarelly speak to her cause shes always wrapped up in somthing wether its planing for prom,getting ready to go to florida with a friend on spring break or just going to the movies.she also has a job and school and i under stand what thats like and dont really mind not talking or seeing her than but 24/7 (besides work and school of couse) shes with friends she even works with 1 or 2 friends.what do you think i should do?do you think im wrong?
2007-03-17 11:59:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
No not at all you have the right to want your sister to spend some of her time with you!What you need to do is make her aware of how you are feeling and that you miss her-it would just be nice if she could make some special time for just you.It is important that she realizes that you need her and look up to her as you should even though she doesn't live with you -she still needs to be a part of your life and show you that you are her sister and she loves you!Talk to her and make her understand how you feel!!!!Good luck
2007-03-17 12:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by sweetsmiles69@jennieask-me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww! Of COURSE you aren't wrong! It's hard to be separated form a sibling that you love, and even harder when its difficlut to be able to spend time with them! I think that you should either tell her, or write her a letter letting her know how you feel. Maybe you two could agree to meet once a week or so, and go to lunch, shopping or just hang out. It doesn't have to be for a long period of time, but it will allow you to spend time together. I think once she know how you feel, she will understand. The older we get, we have so many things going on in our lives, that we neglect friendships or relationships without really meaning to do it.
2007-03-17 19:50:53 · answer #2 · answered by mzstorm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teenagers tend to be like that. She still loves you, but, teenagers think about their boyfriends, friends, school, work, or whatever before they think about hanging with their younger sibling. Talk with your parents about this, maybe they can help. Hope this helps!
God Bless!
2007-03-17 19:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by Apfel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just busy.Try to really talk to her.Pull her aside and ask her if you can spend time with you.Reason with her.I know sisters can be so busy,but still they love you and all. When she is not busy and your not busy,go to the movies and talk.
2007-03-17 22:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by Mean Queen 106 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she still loves you
2007-03-18 00:28:30 · answer #5 · answered by 789512 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋