I feel very sad, can some cheer me up?

Question

in the last couple of days, my grandma passed away, I found out my 1 month vaction to Hong Kong got cancel, My mom is having health issues and my cell phone broke and my family can barely afford to pay for it. My dad is going to leave my family for a couple of days soon and my friend wanted to fight me and started cursing me out for pushing him in a hockey game. and also got some other people to be against me. I've got some bad grades this symester also. The only thing im looking towards is my trip to mexico where I join a group to help poor people build buildings. I want to be alone and I feel really sad and I've battled depression and suicide in the past. should I be feeling this way? I know in the past u guys have helped me out so I have to say thanks adavance. have nice day

Answer 1

I think it's normal to feel down with all that going on. Hope it gets better soon....

Answer 2

Well my goodness that is a lot to happen in an apparently short time. I am sorry about your grandma. Most people feel sad about losing a loved one. You said your dad is leaving for a couple of days that does not indicate that it is forever. Even if he does leave for good he is not really leaving you he is finding a new home to live in and he will always be your dad. Your cell phone broke that is a bummer but not the end of the world. There are in expensive phones you can buy prepaid ones. If your family cannot afford it right now perhaps you are old enough to get a part time job to get one. Just a few hours of work would buy yourself one. If you are not old enough to work then you must be patient. If you were going to take a one month vacation to Hong Kong but now cannot then, you can have a vacation at home. Vacations mean time off from regular day to day activities such as school or work perhaps you can find something different to do during a month? Your friends and the other people, give them time to chill and yourself too. But at the same time stick up for yourself. If you believed you did nothing wrong try to be calm and say you did nothing wrong if they persist in the fight then, they are wrong not you. I hope your mom gets the medical attention she needs so that she can feel better. Mexico yahoo!!!! that sounds like fun. Good companionship, helping others definately cool! I hope I have helped but one thing I always try to remember when I feel extremely depressed or wanting to die, "Change what you can don't worry about what you can't."

Answer 3

I am very sorry for your loss. It sounds like you have a lot of things against you right now. I know exactly how you feel right now because I am going through depression as well and I recently lost one of my friends. I hope everything works out for you. Your friend needs to understand that hockey is a sport where there is a chance you might get shoved. How he cursed you out and wants to fight you I say he needs to chill out. He needs to understand what you are going through and be a friend rather then being mad at you. I think it is really cool that you are going to Mexico to help out some people. That is really awesome. As for your grades, my grades dropped way down as well when I was struggling with death and depression. Just keep your head up straight. Letting your grades drop is only hurting yourself. Battling suicide and depression is always hard. Just remember that suicide is not the answer. By doing that you will only be putting more people you love through another death. Try talking to your family and friends about your depression. That always helps me. Good luck to you and God bless.

Answer 4

You are perfectly normal. Sometimes life just does that to you. It doesn't rain but it pours! The same is true when good things start to happen. Just hang in there, and it will turn around someday.

My grandma passed away a year ago, and it is still hard sometimes. But, I like to believe that death is harder on the people left behind than it is on the ones who are dieing. She is probably still by your side, looking out for you. Take comfort in that, along with the fact that perfect strangers on the internet care enough about you to offer you a few words of encouragement.

But, if you do feel like it might be something more serious, like clinical depression, you should find someone to talk to about it. Blessed be.

Answer 5

well first of all, im very sorry for all your problems, i really am, and it takes a great sole like yours to be still alive from all this, it really does, and i want to help you as much as possible, now to go with some positive progress,

talk to your friend and tell him that don't get so personal with that push in hockey, and if you don't want to forgive me, then hes not really your friend, but at least front him about the situation and if hes still angry about you, then tell him to leave you alone and others too.

For the school thing, i think you know what to do, hit the books, try to understand the work that you do, and if you do, then ask the teacher your problem and hope to get the extra time to do it.

everything else im sorry but i can't help you on that, but good luck with that and i hope you make a great decision to make your life better. and remember, if things go down it can only go up from there. =)

Answer 6

Wow, helping in Mexico is going to be the best medicine for you. When you see how they live down there you will be happy to live and breath! I'm sorry about your grandmother, but only you can bring yourself out the funk you are in. She is probably better off now (depending on what you believe).
Take some deep breaths and just be glad you are living. All these trials are just a bad spot in the road, you WILL get passed them!!!
As for the thoughts of suicide, well, you only think your family is hurting over your grandmother, but if you did that, think of the hurting THAT would cause!!! Your family loves you don't disappoint them.
All of the things that are bringing you down right now are going to make you into a strong individual one day. "That which does not kill us, makes us stronger."

Answer 7

Awww! All the bad things come at once don't they. I've battled depression before so I know what you're going through! Don't be alone. It really doesn't help that much. You feel even worse because you'll start to feel lonely. Even if you don't feel like it surround yourself with people (ones you care about and who care about you) Eat properly, or as well as you can, get as much support from your friends and family as you need and remember there are ALWAYS people who care. I took the time to write all this because I care :) And trust me, it doesn't last forever. I felt really bad for about 2 years and eventually came out the other side. Antidepressants can help, as can counselling. Just keep yourself active and well, and doing stuff you enjoy or even just like a little bit always helps! Good luck xx

Answer 8

wow, thats not good. But there are many in the same boat. take for instance my year...my dad had a heart attack, my brothers strong marriage fell apart, my dad got cancer, my sister ran off with a guy I don't know, my grandad died, and then eventually my Dad died, I am studying hard for my GCSE's and no one is helping me choose a career, they are just pushing me to do more. And the only thing that gets me through it? The fact that I share in a hope that millions also share in...the promise of a paradise earth. I know you have now probably snorted thinking I am another idiot. But I am 14 andvery strong minded, if I didn't believe it I wouldn't tell you. I have seen the evidience myself. the fact that this world is under the devils rule, and that soon it will be under Jehovahs rule..restored to how it was originally keeps me and many many others strong. Take care...and I hope you have a really nice day too. xxxxxxxx

Answer 9

It's quite all right to be feeling utterly low at the moment. Trust me, I totally know. But just remember that no matter how bad things get, there will always be a time when it gets ultimately good! A measured dose of religion can help too.
Remember that that you're not alone (some people are worse off than you) and that nothing is ever accomplished with suicide.
Hang in there!

Answer 10

Whenever things get on top of me and everything is going wrong and I feel down I just keep thinking about how I wont always feel this way. If I have had good times before then I can have them again. Things wont be this bad forever and it is important that you keep remembering that. And there's always the saying "what doesnt kill us makes us stronger" and I really do believe that. After all this has passed you will come out of it all a better, stronger person.

Answer 11

I'm sorry you're having such a rough time. Keep in mind that nothing lasts forever, and this, too shall pass.

Did your cell have a warranty? Maybe your cell company will help you get a new one for cheap or free.

Friends come and go, maybe you should call him and say you're sorry for pushing him.

I could see why your grades might be slipping, you have a lot going on. Have you tried to talk to your guidance counselor?

Can you tell your parents how you're feeling? I'm sure they'd want to know and will try to help you.