The person I like just broke up with my friend I don't want to tell her I like him because she will get mad and I want to tell her but i want her to be my friend too. What should I do???
2007-03-17 11:34:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Men come and go..but friends are forever..stick by your friend..you do not date your friends boyfriends..show some respect for yourself and your friend.
2007-03-17 11:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Boys come and go but a friendship can last forever. Give her some time and wait it out. If you really like this guy then go for it but establish a friendship with him. Over time if your still serious about letting your friend know your true feelings about her ex then at least she may understand that the attraction came from a friendship rather than you liking him while she was still with him.
2007-03-17 18:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're crazy about this guy, then tell him, and don't let your friends stop you. Also, are you sure your friend will get mad at you? You should make sure that she doesn't really care so that you don't have to worry, but one thing to keep in mind is that you should never let your friends affect who you like, hang out with, or date.
2007-03-17 18:38:54 · answer #3 · answered by Flyguyy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her that you like him and try to see if it is OK for you to pursue him but if she says no.. i wouldn't try it if the friendship is better than the guy than leave him alone to keep the friendship cause guys come in go but friends they are forever.. But, on the other end if your friendship is not worth saving and you see a promising future with him than go for it no matter what she says cause if you go to her she is going to say yes hoping that you won't but that all depends on how much she cared about him in the first place... But, the decision is all yours choose wisely.
2007-03-17 18:55:21 · answer #4 · answered by nikkiblue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let time take its place and if you and that person end up together your friend will get over it.
2007-03-17 18:37:45 · answer #5 · answered by thats me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else and be a good friend don't do that to her it's just mean!Even if they aren't together that's not cool.
2007-03-17 18:38:43 · answer #6 · answered by sweetsmiles69@jennieask-me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think there is any good way to tell your friend this, i think you should just forget about it and move on. Somethings are better left untold.
2007-03-17 18:40:45 · answer #7 · answered by Tummy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him you like him. Give him a signal and wait until things chill b/f making another move.
2007-03-17 18:38:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, just be honest with your friend, and tell her the truth, don't lie because she will know eventually.
2007-03-17 18:38:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go there, too many guys out there to be going out with your freinds ex. HOW GROSS CAN YOU GET, SLOPPY LEFT OVERS OF YOU FRIENDS
2007-03-17 18:38:45 · answer #10 · answered by loving U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋