no I don't. I feel that if I don't do anything to harm our relationship, then I have nothing to hide. I think that if a person has to either hide or lie about anything to their spouse, then they also have a serious problem with their marriage.
2007-03-17 12:16:58
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answered by nidan 4
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I think you are dealing with a conscience problem perhaps. If you are married, or in a relationship secrets are obviously not a great thing. A relationship is almost like a house in a lot of ways. In order to have a strong beautiful house it has to have a strong, thick foundation. The foundation consists of communication, trust, respect. If you want all the workings of a beautiful house, then you must practice all of the above. If you want to settle for second or third best, by alll means keep secrets.
2007-03-17 18:21:21
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answered by EternalBlueMemory 4
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Many folks do have a skeleton in their closet somewhere . If it could hurt another person it's better to keep your mouth shut and be a responsible adult from then on . What's the point to unload on someone strictly to ease your own guilty conscious . Just be sure to bury it forever and not blabber when you're stoned .
There are no limits. Learn from the burden and be a better spouse .
2007-03-17 18:18:46
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answered by Anonymous
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Yahoo Answers is probably my only (not so) secret from him. He could easily guess my account info. I don't hide it.
I used to hide that I loaned my neighbor money, but I don't loan as much and when I do I tell him. The only reason I wouldn't tell him was because our husbands talk. Well, I decided to put my dh first and tell all if she borrows. It's not worth it to keep someone else's secrets if it means hiding the truth from him.
2007-03-17 18:13:57
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answered by pinniethewooh 6
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i don't know that i'd call them secrets but after 26 yrs of marriage and 3 boys, there are some things that are better left unsaid or taken care of without having to worry my husband about them. a little trick many of us do.
2007-03-17 18:20:37
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answered by racer 51 7
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no matter how hard you try everyone is gonna have their secrets ...well they wont be secrets but things you dont want to talk about that ur husband/wife wont understand. so its not wrong because if u cheat on him/her it WILL come back 2 u and he/she will find out
2007-03-17 18:13:31
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answered by theoneandonly 2
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Well little petty stuff like maybe you wnt shopping and didnt tell him or something like that because you knew he would go balistic that you went and spent money on things you didnt need. But i would draw the line at an affair! if thats where your getting at.
2007-03-17 18:13:29
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answered by Anonymous
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I dont keep anything from my boyfriend, i think that honesty is the best thing in a relationship, even though he dont exactly do the same for me. but in my past relationships most of them did not work out b/c of not being honest. i believe you should be honest about everything.
2007-03-17 18:12:56
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answered by Anonymous
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It depends on what the secrete is.
Jewel T
2007-03-17 18:10:58
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answered by Anonymous
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Think that mystery creates interest. We all have things that we do not tell someone. Just make sure you tell no one so they won't hear it from someone else. And, don't talk in your sleep.
2007-03-17 18:12:03
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answered by solotrovo 4
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