my x partner and I have been seperated for over 4 years. we have an 14 year old girl from a previous relationship she had, and an 8 year old son. she told me she was moving out of the family home 1 week after we had brought it.after endless attempts of trying to talk her out of it ,and asking her how she was going to manage supporting herself and the kids .I was told I'll manage. she didn't and I let her move back into the house and moved out.with the help of family mediation which she didn't want to attend we came to some informal agreements,which included if she cohabitated for more then 6 months with another person she would buy my share of the house.on getting the keys she moved herself,kids and new boyfreind into the house.that was 2 years ago her new boyfreind has been evicted by her from the house more times then i can remember.i feel this is not good for the kids.i want to be in a position to offer an alternative if the kids want it and need money to purchase my own place.
2007-03-17 11:04:51 · 6 answers · asked by MAGPIE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
me and my husband were split up for several years before our divorce i kept waiting for something to change and it never did i say do what you got to do more time isnt going to change anything
2007-03-17 11:12:59 · answer #1 · answered by just_4_fun130 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean should you sue to make her buy your portion of the house? You could but it might be difficult to enforce the mediation unless there was some written agreement drawn up to make that more valid. Good luck to you and the kids.
2007-03-17 18:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by indydst8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start litigation ASAP! It will give you the legal edge by being the first one to file and as a man you will need all you can get. Nice people finish last in court. Get a lawyer now.
2007-03-17 18:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to speak to the kids involved and then your ex. to come to a agreement to suit all parties
2007-03-17 18:14:37 · answer #4 · answered by RAINBOW 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i believe that for your well being and for the kids, it is time to move on. your ex really needs to move on and grow up - she has been using you for far too long. you need to be able to start over and find someone truly deserving of you. the kids need you to be the adult in their lives and show them that they can have stability. hope this helps.
2007-03-17 18:11:20 · answer #5 · answered by RainStarJG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems they are living in your home?
if it were me, i'd seek professional advice -- attorney or paralegal.
i don't think you want to continue this situation forever.... do what is best for you and your kids.
2007-03-17 18:10:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋