My mom told me once that not to have sex before I get married. But I see hella hot girls at school and I wanna **** them. What do you think?
2007-03-17 10:55:04 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you need to listen to your mothers advice until you can restrain yourself and learn to see women in a view other than just sexual objects.
2007-03-17 10:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by radiancia 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Try to calm your hot pants down until you can be mature enough to take care of a family or at least until you can stop speaking... like hella hot. What is that? Yes, a real lady would love for you to tell her she's HELLA HOT Stay in school and take some cold showers, I did.
2007-03-17 18:45:28 · answer #2 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe sex before marriage is wrong for a few reasons.
1) Sex requires one to be quite mature and responsible. The results of a sexual union create emotional attachments and possibly the creation of a new life. Outside of marriage, the emotional attachments can never be secure and the new life will face uncertainty without a stable family.
2) Recreational sex is quite dangerous now with the prevalence of STDs. Remember, some of these STDs are uncurable and fatal.
Basically, before you decide to engage in sex, ask yourself if it is worth the risk of an STD. Ask yourself if you are ready to become a father with all the responsibilites it entails.
2007-03-17 18:03:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are a Christian than you know that sex before marriage is a sin. It is a sin against your body and a sin against God. I would say wait until your married, it would definitely be worth the wait. But I obviously cant make you lol so I just advise you to be careful who you get intimate with because if she gets pregnant than your stuck w/ that person for the rest of ur life, whether or not yawl get marriend youll end up paying child support or sumthin. Just before you do it, use your brain and analyze whether not ur ready for the possibility of children.
After all
sex=KIDS!!!
2007-03-17 18:06:13 · answer #4 · answered by princessamber_89 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes sex before marriage is wrong. Sex was created by God to be an intimate exprience between a husband and wife within the bonds of marriage.
But society has bought into lies that says it's ok to have have sex before marriage, because as society says, it's just sex. But that's not true.
Sex is full of emotion.
2007-03-17 18:00:16 · answer #5 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's called Fornication and it's a mortal sin.
We are to abstain from fornication and not use our body for fornication (I Cor. 6: 18, 13).
Corruption and filthiness are associated with fornication (Rev. 17: 4; 19: 2).
Conclusion: The good news is all sin, including fornication, can be forgiven (Acts 2: 38; I Jn. 1: 7; I Cor. 6: 9-11). However, some sins, such as fornication, can especially have long range consequences (children conceived, venereal disease, one put away for sin, the dissolution of a marriage, etc.).
2007-03-17 18:06:04 · answer #6 · answered by itty bitty 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
OK well. You need to be prepared for alot of things. One. Are you ready to be a great father for a child if the girl gets pregnant and do you think you have enough money for it. And if you leave the girl the baby could be emotional messed up from not being around its father. Two. You could get an STD if your not careful. Three. If you ditch the girl after you do this she will tell her friends and they will tell their friends and it will get around and no one will do anything with you because they will think you are a jerk. Trust me. I am a girl!
2007-03-17 18:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi there
No, as long as you're truly committed to the person, I don't think you should if you are not truly committed. At the end of the day you could be married to someone and still not be fully committed. I think its down to commitment rather than whether you're married or not.
Scott
2007-03-18 08:51:12 · answer #8 · answered by scott.radley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be wrong to have sex before marriage but most everyone has sex before marriage these days. Make sure that you and the girl are ready and make sure that there are no unwanted pregnacies.
2007-03-17 18:26:32 · answer #9 · answered by Nancy M 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do think it's wrong. I did do it though. I was engaged and we were married 2 months later. It was wrong of us to do it, and we both know it. Just wait. You will be much happier later in life when you get married and you have only been with the one true love of your life.
2007-03-17 18:02:43 · answer #10 · answered by DeAnna 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are experiencing what mom's call "raging hormones"! You will live through it! Sex was intended by God for Married People. Do not "ruin" a nice girl for a decent man because of YOUR hormones. Join a sport. Join the youth group at your local church. Give yourself time to mature. You will not regret it.
2007-03-17 18:00:04 · answer #11 · answered by Kimmy K 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋