short version of long story:
theres this girl at my high school who has nowhere to live cause her parents use 2 abuse her so she makes deals with guys that shell sleep wit them if they feed her and let her sleep at there house
i made an arangement with her to do that but then i really started likeing her
i let her move in with me and my family loves her but i cant stand her anymore, shes become so clingly. how do i get her out of my house ?
2007-03-17 10:26:07 · 14 answers · asked by man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just be honest with her. Maybe if you tell her that her "clinging" is turning you off, then she'll back off some. It sounds like to me that if it doesn't work, she can easily find somewhere else to go. Besides, nobody wants to be in a place they aren't welcome.
Good luck.
2007-03-17 10:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by btbbm97 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You don't have to throw her out of your house. It seems like that would be the worst thing you could do to her. You don't have to be her boyfriend either though. You should just talk to her, and tell her that you think you need a little space. If you family doesn't mind her staying I think its probably the best place for her to be. Kicking her out will just put her in another bad situation. I bet if you tell her you want to take a break from the relationship she'll understand. Let her know she can continue living there and she won't resent you. She may even move out herself. Take it from me though, forcing her out on the street isn't what you want to do. She's been abused enough, a little kindness is what she needs.
2007-03-17 10:33:56 · answer #2 · answered by ColdPcarter 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So you made arrangements to house her with the stipulations that you have the same arrangement like you just finished saying was made by the other dudes. So you had your fun and you think you like her, mostly because of sleeping with her. Now she's become dependent on you because you showed her you were a caring individual, what you call clingy. Well bud, do what the other dudes did with her. Join in the abuse club with the rest of the people.
2007-03-17 10:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs psychological help. undeniable and straightforward. She made this manage you and somewhat of being a buddy and giving her an section to stay you agreed, and then you declare to love her? do not misinform your self and pretty now to not her. She's clingy because of what she has been via and he or she likely senses that you attempt to do away at the same time with her. She in simple terms needs someone to love her and care about her and he or she doens't be conscious of the thanks to get it. in case you want to do something strong for her communicate along with your father and mom about procedures to do something to help her, in case you won't be able to provide her what she needs contact new child amenities and they're going to come across a foster kin for her. in case you do not provide a **** what takes position to her tell her to %. her bags and go away, perchance she'll locate some different person who will provide her what she fairly needs or she'll finally end up a homeless youngster on the line and probable a prostitute.
2016-11-26 19:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer to help her find an apartment... don't even say you want to break up... just suggest she get a job and try to live out of the house... maybe let on that you're looking for more privacy in your relationship (ie: away from your parents) Support her as much as you can emotionally, help her get on her feet, and then when she's stable, tell her you will always be there for her but that she should try being more dependent, and seeing other people.
2007-03-17 10:32:07 · answer #5 · answered by magicpixie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should have known that with an emotional damaged person comes other things. Now that you have used her up and she is feeling safe with you, instead of you talking to her about her behavior, you say, ''I can't stand her''. You are so sad. Just remember that what goes around, comes back around. You don't need to get her out of the house. That's the safest place she have right now and if you don't like her, then you need to tell your family to have a talk with her sense you are not mature enough to handle it.
2007-03-17 10:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your family let a high school girl live in the house with you?
Wow.....what a family.
She's used to being abused.....what's one more time....just tell her that you've finished using her and she needs to leave.
2007-03-17 10:32:04 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that she has to go, poor thing, I feel sorry for her and I don't even know her. I don't know the whole story, but I am sure her being clingy isn't the only reason why you want her out, but you should just tell her that she needs to find somewhere to go and give her sometime to do it.
2007-03-17 10:31:57 · answer #8 · answered by spoiltrini 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There was a time when 'clingy' met affection. You knew where she was at, emotionally, and now that you had your 'fun' , you want to get rid of her? MAN? First, change your name to loser, realize that this is the ONLY girl you will ever have, run back to your mommy and ask her for advice, LOSER!!!!!
2007-03-17 10:35:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
you can't just throw her away like a piece of trush! Just try to ask her if you could have some down time to yourself. If she is thankful enough then she will let you have you space back.
2007-03-17 10:37:59 · answer #10 · answered by Danielle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋