my friend is a skater and all of his friends wear the tight jeans all the time and he tries to as well.... but he has no butt so every time he bends over and his shirt comes up his boxers are shined to the whole world.. I've told him a thousand times "dude, im tired of seeing your boxers! I bet i can name half of your underwear and thats just kinda wrong..." but he thinks its a joke... i mean... its annoying for all of my friends to be staring at his butt (or lack thereof) because they all think he's hot... ok... he's NOT HOT!!! and its kinda gross to see his underwear all the freakin time..
is there any way to get him to wear pants that stay up withought hurting his feelings?
2007-03-17 10:15:34 · 3 answers · asked by janna w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he wears belts, but he's so small that he has trouble finding belts he likes and he buys belts that are just decorative and dont really help... and refuses to do otherwise!! i mean.. he wears belts out of the belt-loops... his mom tried to get him to wear a plain belt.. but he refuses... and plain belts are all that are small enough for him!
i mean... he's just SOO thin!
2007-03-17 10:23:11 · update #1
Well first of all I think he is doing so because he thinks he might attract girls' eyes at his underwear..honestly if I see the boxers of a skater I won't say it is so impolite lol..just kidding..yeah I understand how you and your friends feel because you are guys. I suggest that you go and buy him a decent leather belt, from artificial leather of course no so expensive and make some extra holes with a bradawl in it so that he can wear it when he is so skinny. And tell him after you buy him the belt that you did special extra holes in it so that he can fasten it because you feel uncomfortable to see his boxers and you do not like that. Tell him 'dude, I understand you wanna attract gals with ya boxers out of ya pants but do that when there aren't guys around ya, otherwise we are really feeling not well to see ya undies, and that's not intended to hurt you in some way just I am telling you how I feel and the rest of our group and of course we are always friends no matter ya undies are out or hidden but just dude how should you feel to see my boxers all da time?" Hope he understands and stop doing so without hurt feelings.
2007-03-17 11:20:41 · answer #1 · answered by Natalie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a life rule ... pick the things in life that matter and let go of the rest. Honestly, leave the guy alone ... I'm sure you're now perfect in every way, would you like others to point out your faults?
2007-03-17 17:24:45 · answer #2 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a belt.
2007-03-17 17:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋