Does anyone know someone who had themselves voluntarily castrated? I am old, and my libido is annoying.?

Question

I have been reading information on a web site concerning this subject and I think that castration may solve my problem. My wife of 35 yrs is totally uninterested and so am I except for very infrequent times. Sex has been fabulous for most of our marriage, except for the last 2 years. This subject has been a source of friction between us now and we are both unhappy with the divide it is causing. I will not cheat , so what do I do atthose times? Also, what doctors will do it, how much will it cost, and is it effective?

Answer 1

Think back over the last two years. What has changed between you and your wife?
-Have either of you been placed on medications during that time? Lots of meds have low libido side affect.
-Have you stopped keeping your body clean and started dressing sloppy? Any woman is turned off by that.
-Have you both stopped having "pillow talk"? Sweet nothings go a long way!
-Slam bam thank you mam doesn't give satisfaction. Do that a few times and the wife will lose interest fast and not want more of the same.
-Do the two of you have shared interests? Boredom can set in and affect all aspects of marriage.

First, instead of asking questions on YA, you should make a doctor's appointment and talk this over with him because this happens to a lot of men (and women). Be perfectly honest with him on all points.
After you do this and your health checks out ok, do not tell your wife she needs to see a doctor because it's her fault, not yours. It could be your "technique" that's lacking.

A urologist takes care of impotence. No doctor will castrate a man for reasons you give. It would be very costly. and yes, castration is effective if done for proper reasons.

And most of all, stop believing crap on the internet. 98% is inaccurate and you have to know what is going on with your body to know what to look for. Save your time and see your doctor.

Answer 2

Don't panic,I think castration may be a bit extreme! If you have had a good sex life for most of your marriage,then there must be a reason why things have gone wrong.Perhaps your wife may be uncomfortable,she may need extra help with lubrication.If it turns out that she just isn't interested for whatever reason,then you have a dilemma.To cheat or not to cheat.I recommend getting yourself a good stash of 'adult entertainment' and perfecting your technique!

Answer 3

Why not just use salt peter or something less drastic than a permanent surgery?

Many men deal with lack of sex at far younger ages than you are, and with high desire...it's simply a matter of self control...women go through it too (desire but no partner)...few people have sex accessible to them anytime they want it with someone they want to have it with.

Answer 4

That’s WAY TOO DRASTIC. Talk to your doctor about the problem.


By the way…in the state where I live it’s a felony to castrate someone…even if they request that you do it.

Answer 5

I have a friend who had his tubes tied for his wife & now they are divorced. It has'nt affected his sex drive.Castration sounds a bit much. If you get you're tubes tied they can reverse it in the future.

Answer 6

Ask the doctor for something to take care of the problem, I believe there are pills for that!

Answer 7

um why would you want to do that? no longer want to have sex with your wife? so...castration? see a counselor. dont think youre thinking straight. peace

Answer 8

i cannot imagine a reputable surgeon amputating a healthy organ, simply because you're tired of it....sir, truthfully, it is not within a normal range of actions to be so blase' about ones own castration....i think you need counseling...ASAP...


god bless you, & give you peace, tammy

Answer 9

Are both of your wrist broken?