2007-03-17 09:33:08 · 26 answers · asked by me5abanjatti 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, why do women , at the start of a relationship, care for a guy, let him go out with his friends, has great sex with him many times, snuggles up next to him when they watch TV, never bothers him, and then when they get married and she decides that sex is off the menu, he can't do anything right, criticises all his DIY efforts/driving , asks him why he's wasting his life watching TV, in that dead end job, where does he think he's going, down the pub!? so now she wont talk to him for the rest of the week, and he can't even relax in his own home.Is it any wonder men long for the times when a woman seemed to genuinely care about him? he probably wants that again and he'll never get it at home with some frosty knickered iron faced old boiler skulking in the dining room. Most men who run away from their wife's and families aren't doing it just to get their leg over, they actually just want to be special again ( and to get their leg over ) so think on Ladies.
2007-03-17 09:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by exploding_pants 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They don't necessarily go out looking. They get tempted by women that know they are married and don't care. They will manipulate and pursue these married men and sad to say these men fall prey to the temptations because they feel good getting this attention and these compliments. Soon they become very selfish and some may even develop mental problems since a lot of these tramps aren't even attractive. Then you just have to ask yourself what man in their right mind forgets about their great family for a tramp? The answer is a mental problem because a man in their right mind wouldn't do that to their great family.
2007-03-17 09:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by Tgirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some men begin to feel they aren't what they used to be . They begin to feel inadequate and there self a steam falls to boost this up and make them feel better they go looking. They might still be happily married ,working and supporting the family,and so the easiest way of boosting there natural instincts is to look for other women.
2007-03-17 11:32:31 · answer #3 · answered by MAGPIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some cases...they aren't really happily married. In some cases, they have no self control...it's like an addiction. It's sad either way..... there is also the concept that they married for the wrong reason and are forever looking for something better..... no matter the reason....a guy like that will rarely change...time to minimize the damage and move on if your man is like that.
2007-03-17 10:17:26 · answer #4 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because SOME men cannot help themselves - I was once told by a guy that it is in their nature to cheat - I did beg to differ because I have met some decent guys who have never cheated in their life. The old saying that people think the grass is greener or maybe they just want something they haven't got - who knows? All I do know is that for most of them when they get caught and lose everything they then realise what they did have at home!!
2007-03-17 09:38:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are not really happily married to begin with as they say they are. They need to stop looking and start looking and loving what they have at home. The reason they are looking is because they are not really happy and they truley do not love you the way that they should.
2007-03-17 09:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its called "the curse".Seems like adultery is getting to be the norm and the thing is though people know its immoral it is deemed acceptable.
If this is happening to you I feel for you.Find yourself a good support group church friends or pastor open options.If your husband is remorseful then forgive and have counselling.Marriages can survive but it will take a lot of work.
Seek some good help not people who are already divorced though as misery always looks for company
2007-03-17 09:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by JUSEve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I said before KID'S IN A CANDY STORE! they want it ALL! never knowing what they have at home.
I'm not sure the democratic way is good for some people. There are way to many choices. And some people should NEVER BE MARRIED! because they just can't seem to choose wisely or choose at all HAHA.
2007-03-17 09:45:57 · answer #8 · answered by SecretFriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men who are happy don't go "looking". I am not saying they don't "see" what passes them, they just don't go out hunting for something else. My boyfriend says all the time, "If I have a Cadillac in the garage, what in the hell do I want with a Volkswagen?" That is the word of a man not looking elsewhere!
2007-03-17 09:51:55 · answer #9 · answered by Vonnie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they are obviously not happy married! To be fair I believe that some men are just not able to recognise a good relationship and therefore keep thinking they can find better else where... It happened to me too and believe it or not I have recreate another "happy family" He didn't!!!
2007-03-17 11:12:46 · answer #10 · answered by Pois Chiche 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋