2007-03-17 09:31:11 · 22 answers · asked by Chloe 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You realize you would be screwing up a LOT of lives.... You stuff those feelings down and you find a guy of your own. It wouldn't be right. And think about how you'd feel if your friend was hot for YOUR husband. Forget it.
2007-03-17 09:35:19 · answer #1 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all i really doubt it is love. I mean i am not saying its not because you are the one feeling it, but i would back off if not it will RUIN your friendship-or at best it will never be the same..
I am sure you have heard the saying,"its just as easy to fall for a rich man as a poor one"??? Well trust me it would be just as easy for you to fall for a SINGLE available man, as it is a married one and not only married but to your best friend- if i were you i would as myself what if i were married and she(my best friend) did the same to me??I know and you know you would not like it! Also i will say whatever it is about him you feel you are in love for--believe it that he has a whole other side that you not being his wife don tknow.
Its so easy to be in love with someone when you only see the best side of them, heck if that were the case everyone would stay in love, its only after you know the "whole" person when you discover other things you may really hate!
I dont know if he knows how you feel-but if so and he reciprocates your feelings-that is enough to show he is a cheat-and if he cheats on the wife eventually he will cheat on you---
2007-03-17 16:52:19 · answer #2 · answered by roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) don't LIE about it if it comes up express your feelings
2) on a scale of one to ten how much of a Friend are you to this person (the woman)
3) how much are you in love with this man?
4) have you two had past relationships?
5)since you are a friend of this marriage what are your feelings toward it?
6) do you feel you can love this man better?
7) if you two WHERE together how would your best friend feel?
8) what do you think his thoughts are toward you?
answer these questions and it would be self explanatory on what you should do. your heart will tell you!
2007-03-17 16:44:35 · answer #3 · answered by blueredshott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you dont let her find out because you dont want to mess up your friendship and second off you stay far away from her husband as to not tempt youself into doing anything with him and if you cant then you have to tell your friend that your getting feelings for her man other wise youll end up doing something that you will really regret.
2007-03-17 16:38:27 · answer #4 · answered by Rachael 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! I wouldn't go there. I think you should ask yourself why you think you are in love with him. Do you think you are in love with him because you see the way he cares for your best friend? Or do you love him because you have had an actual relationship/intimate relationship with him? If your baseing this feeling by the way you see that he cares for your friend then it may not be love. You may just be envious of your friend. Either way, I would not go there. It's probably not worth your friendship.
2007-03-17 16:38:07 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well , you fail to mention how far you have taken this...
Are you having an affair with him.?
Have some restraint if not.... dont go there.. he is taken... and by your friend...so be a friend back and leave alone.
if you have taken it to an affair and ......
if this is really love , then tell him he must leave one relationship before entering into another and stop seeing him... then see if he does.. if he does , you can be sure it will end your best friend status.
2007-03-17 16:37:08 · answer #6 · answered by lynn s 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Have sex with him a few times to see if the "love" goes away. If love is still there then get as far as possible.
2007-03-17 16:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by jasonheavilin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not a thing! Try and find someone else because It would relay brake your friendship apart.I don't think you want that Do You?
2007-03-17 16:35:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You get as far as you can from him, before you make a huge mistake i mean you only like him because he is taken (impossible and trouble)
2007-03-17 16:34:49 · answer #9 · answered by beutifulbutterfly101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. It's your best friend & the world is a big place. You can find someone else.
2007-03-17 16:33:50 · answer #10 · answered by ♣Hey jude♣ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋