I have this ex and we are really good friends still and both of us still don't have a new girl/boy friend...we both said we moved on,but the truth is I haven't...and he (I think) knows. I love him,but I don't want to hurt our friendship,by telling him my feelings for him...so what should I do about it? Oh yay we live really far away from each other now. But we still call and IM each other...so help?!
2007-03-17 09:29:47 · 14 answers · asked by Bootsy* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell him that he's a REAL NICE guy coz many people don't usually remain friends with someone they once were involved with. I think if he's still friends with you is that he can't forget you and wanna be close to you.
While speaking to him, just tell him: "Have I ever made you feel that you were not important, that I didn't need you?", tell him this in a friendly but calm tone, if he asks why, then just reply:"I just felt that I've hurt you, that's why"
2007-03-17 09:37:46 · answer #1 · answered by Lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The long distance relationships don't work out very well all the time but they are also good because your not with the person all the time and you don't get tired of them etc. It can workout by always meetin every weekend and hangin around 2-3 times a week like at a local mall or something.
2007-03-17 09:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by Dj Skillz30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...I suggest you don't get back with exs at all. I seen many who done such that and it failed,and it hurt even more then the time b4. I say just stay Friend and find someone you have not dated. Also you guys being so far apart will not help anything. Get someone that you can hang out with and go out places with.
2007-03-17 09:34:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way u will feel peace in this situation is if u tell him. u just gotta come out with it. How do u know he doesn't feel the same. what you can do is tell him how u feel and if he doesn't feel the same u will never speak of it again......but at least you will know how he feels and if its not the same as you then u can move on to someone u meet that u can love and will love u back
2007-03-17 09:40:01 · answer #4 · answered by fatt_and_juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him
its betterthan hiding it
i guarentee you will feel better if he knows
if he is still your friend then that means he loves you in one way or another
DO IT
and give me best answer please<3
2007-03-17 09:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by antz_xo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distancde?--chances are he's going to mess around , i don't care how much he denies it...i'd tell him you you want to stay in touch, but you want to be free to date, and so can he...then if you still want to be together when he returns, your relationship will be stronger because it withstood the test of other people...doing nothing but waiting for him to return would be a huge mistake
Good Luck!
2007-03-17 09:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by arenaimage 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u like him u should tell him but if he doesnt just say that u r still friends member it is not harmful to try!
2007-03-17 09:33:55 · answer #7 · answered by Tweentwin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i never do long distance relationships, hardly ever work to be honest.
but i would tell him you still have feelings for him, just ask him how he feels about it. he should understand. if he doesnt he is a completer retard.
2007-03-17 09:33:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm wow....well....if u have 2 tell him u love him...tell him but say(pretend if u have 2 or mean it) tht u meant it in a brotherly/sisterly way....u kno...tht way u r still telling him but he thinks u mean as brothers and sisters...ya kno? well if it didn't help or it wasn't wht u r lookin 4...sorry...but if it helps...great!
2007-03-17 09:34:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
move on
2007-03-17 09:34:03 · answer #10 · answered by Mark W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋