Just curious, is it true? And how come all gay guys are hot? Whats up with that?
2007-03-17 08:44:59 · 17 answers · asked by Shorty 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Nope. Like you said, lots of gay men are very, very attractive. It seems like all I ever hear is girls and women complaining "Why are all the good guys gay? Why are gay guys so cute?". Gay men aren't gay for any lack of something to attract women- it's because they like men.
Same goes for lesbians; a lot of people think more masculine women are lesbians because they can't attract men, and while it may be true that female masculinity isn't a huge turn-on for the average man, these women aren't gay because of that- they're gay because they love women.
Hope that helps.
2007-03-17 08:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all gay guys are hot. Many of them groom themselves, true. But that's only because the macho westernized ideal of masculinity tags a man's occupation with his looks as 'effeminate.' Many straight men are afraid of caring for their looks because their peers might call them gay. That aside, if gay men were only with each other because no girls were available, then gay marriage wouldn't be such a big issue. Homosexuality is an emotional and physical connection to the same sex. That means that gay men love other men, just as straight men love women. No amount of available girls would turn a gay man straight, just as no amount of available guys would turn a straight man gay. Love can't be chosen, it just happens. It has a lot to do with genetics, and genetics are determined even before a baby is born. So in short, people are gay because they are born that way, not because of lack of the opposite sex. I hope this answers your question ^_^!
2007-03-17 08:55:33 · answer #2 · answered by roxusan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Please! I had the hottest babes in high school HANGING on me! Look--- if NEVER got laid again, I would still die gay. It's way more than how I like to screw.
As far as looking good--- well, there is a lot more pressure for that, and a lot less assumption that you are still attractive if you have a beer belly and don't wear clean clothes.
I also think that a lot of the gay muscle-boy stuff started happening as an unconscious reaction to AIDS... sort of like unconscious proof that "see, I am healthy!".
2007-03-17 08:51:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not that gay guys CAN'T get with girls, it's that they do not WANT to get with girls.
A few girls I knew from college have looked me up over the last few years wanting to know if I am still single. I just say that I am seeing someone. One girl asked about another guy we both knew in college and wanted to know if he was gay; since he is I told her he was, and she told me that she had always thought so and could always tell who was gay. Since she had just told me how much she had always liked me and that if I stopped seeing anyone to call her, I just smiled and told her I would...
2007-03-17 09:52:11 · answer #4 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. You said all gay guys are hot, but still you said that we "became" gay because we can't get women. I really can get a woman, but I don't want to. I just don't love women (Sexually), I love men.
2007-03-17 09:16:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not. Same as with lesbians. It's something you are born as, just as your gender and such. Now if they are bi, maybe they would decide they prefer one gender or another. As far as the last one, I couldn't give an answear, its basically an opinion, you would do better asking why you think they are all hot.
2007-03-17 08:57:24 · answer #6 · answered by Doctor Robotnik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no!they just do not have a sexual attraction to women! and there are hot straight guys too! gay men just seem to take far more pride in their looks!
2007-03-17 08:56:29 · answer #7 · answered by onecrazymama05 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that were the case, why would a married man sneak off for sex with other men?
2007-03-17 14:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by AusBill2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you don't "become" gay. You are born that way.
And they are just attracted to guys, not girls, its not because they can't "get any" with the girls.
2007-03-17 08:50:43 · answer #9 · answered by ~ Lillie ~ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whats up with all these stupid question from people who either have never met any glbt people or only seen us on TV.
OOPS I said TV sorry.
2007-03-17 08:52:27 · answer #10 · answered by Please call me ( Sissy ) 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋