Sometimes I want to ditch them both and say forget you but NONE of my friends get along with each other so I am always stuck! How do I fix this????
2007-03-17 08:22:18 · 13 answers · asked by Kiana 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
THAT RELI TOUGH COZ IN LIFE U CAN HAVE TWO BESTFRIENDS AND ESPECT BOTH OF THEM TO GET ALONG.THEY'LL ALWAYS COMPETE WITH EACH OTHER TO GET YOUR ATTENTION.JUST SIT THEM DOWN & EXPLAIN THE SITUATION.IF THEY ARE REALLY YOUR BESTFRIEND ARE THAY SAY I THINK THEY'LL COME TO A COMPROMISE.
2007-03-17 08:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by MAIME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Kiana, you should tell both of your friends that if they don't watch themselves in front of you, you'll find new friends. Tell them that if they can't behave, you can't be with both of them at the same time. Say that you don't want a friendship with two people who hate each other. I'm sure they'll get along after that! Good luck and take care, love, Saher :)
2007-03-17 08:36:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never get them to get along with each other.
I had that problem and I was stuck in the middle. I tried to stay out of it but one of my friends thought I was taking sides and wrote me a terrible letter stating that I was not her friend because friends don't do that to friends.
I was so hurt because I really liked them both and I would have liked to stay friends with both of them.
I think you just can't do things with them both together.
2007-03-17 08:29:04 · answer #3 · answered by Linda L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem at school...my two best friends HATE each other right now...when i go to school i have to choose which i want to hang out with...if i choose one the other gets mad...it happens all the time...the way i handle it is, i call one and find out if he/she wants to be friends with the other, and if she/he does then i three way call the other one and not tell them that the other is on the phone... i talk to her and find out whats wrong then i tell the other that she/he can talk...ya the one gets a little mad but she/he gets over it... so after a while they will be friends again...
2007-03-17 08:40:01 · answer #4 · answered by rebechat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit them both in a room a confront them about it. Tell them that you want to hang out with both of them but you don't want to be stuck in the middle of there fighting.
2007-03-17 08:26:52 · answer #5 · answered by C.K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just going to have to let them resolve this problem on their own because then you will be the one to blame. Just hang out with both of them on different days let them know how you feel
2007-03-17 08:27:03 · answer #6 · answered by esnoopyl7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 19:09:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey have u ever watched fairly odd parents?
Pretend that u r in trouble, or got hurt and ask both of them to come and help. They might try to work together to save u.
2007-03-17 09:04:02 · answer #8 · answered by mineolajose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should make them both friends and say "come on ppl we shouldnt hate each other we werent put in this world to hate ppl so if you guys work out a compromise i think everything will be ok just make them talk i think it will prolly work
2007-03-17 08:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Jodie♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say to both of them I want to be friends with both of you and I want to hang out with both of you. Ask then both why do you not like eachother and hope to work it out. This happens to me alot! Hope everything works out!
2007-03-17 08:48:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋