I am scared to lose my husband. How do I know if I am good in bed?
2007-03-17 08:15:16 · 20 answers · asked by n n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He didn't c-u-m once. He is the only man I have been with. I am 30( and real).
2007-03-17 08:21:20 · update #1
I married him because we fell in love. He is my soulmate.
2007-03-17 08:28:14 · update #2
Just ask him how you can please him, then go from there.
He loves you. He will understand.
I was insecure at first during the first few years I was with my husband. He knew I was inexperienced and guided me, plus sometimes I asked him how to do things right.
You won't know unless you ask.
2007-03-17 08:27:42 · answer #1 · answered by Tara662 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your husband. Ask him how he thinks you are in bed. Or if you don't want to be so upfront, as him what he would like you to do in bed. That way you can do exactly what he ask you to do, and when your done doing it, ask him if he liked it. Don't be scared to lose your husband. Sex is a small part of a marriage. If your husband's penis somehow got cut off, would you leave him? It's a stupid question, but if you answered yes then maybe you don't love your husband as much as you think you do. Marriage is about love. If you love a person unconditionally, then reardless of how good or bad you are in bed, he would still love you, stay committed to you, and never leave you.
2007-03-17 08:23:00 · answer #2 · answered by nicky3162002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, has he ever told you if you was? Do you think you are? These are some important questions you need to ask yourself. All you can do is hope he thinks you are, try new things with him and come up with new ideas. Sex is a very important part of a relationship, this we all know, but it is not the only thing. Talk with him about your sexual relationship, and ask if he is happy with it or what. This is the only advice I can think of to give you.
2007-03-17 08:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by My Lord . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask him.....read some magazines about it and watch a few movies they can be very educational. if you husband loves you he wont leave you because you suck in bed. you will get better with time no worries. for tips and advice (i cant put it here not appropriate) email me i have plenty of tips you can try to make your love life better kitty45342@yahoo.com talk to you soon
2007-03-17 08:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by kitty45342 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him!
And, honey, if the basis of your marriage depends on whether or not you are good in bed or not, then you got a lot more problems than just insecurity there....sorry but it's true.
2007-03-17 08:17:41 · answer #5 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
if you felt you were good in bed then you wouldn't be so insecure. the only thing i can suggest is try talking dirty while having sex and see what his responses are. also sex isn't always everything in a marriage, what ever happened to love.
2007-03-17 08:23:40 · answer #6 · answered by Star 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Llet me just say if he were to leave you because of sex, he obviously doesnt think your his soulmate. Try talking to him about it. See what he say. Talk about things you like and things he likes and try and do those things for each other. I wish you the best of luck! :}
2007-03-17 08:45:23 · answer #7 · answered by lost&confuzed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask your husband if you are good in bed or not and if he is satisfied with you. Ask him to teach you things that he wants you to do to please him and make him happier if need be. What all do you do for him in be if i may ask? Does he seem unhappy or unsatisfied?
2007-03-17 08:20:56 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him! My hubby and I are very open when it comes to that! Dont feel ashamed and when you do dont get defensive if he says you could improve on something!
Communtication is the best way to go! =)
2007-03-17 08:20:18 · answer #9 · answered by Sheri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Good in bed" is subjective. What might be "good" to one person, might not be to another person. Just put yourself into lovemaking, really enjoy it, and your husband will be a "happy camper".
2007-03-17 08:21:16 · answer #10 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋