what would u do if a friend of urs who used to care alot for u, who used to give u so much attention and for whom u were first in her frnd's list. Who used to give u an ear and shoulder to cry on always. And who showed u that she loves talking to u. Who used to text u in a day so many times which made u feel that she remembers u. Who used to answer ur calls immediately. Who used to do every thing according to ur wish even if it was just talking to u. If all of a sudden she stops doing all this and start reply ur calls and msgs late. How do u feel? do u miss her and her attention? Do u think she is a good friend? please please help.
2007-03-17 08:08:55 · 12 answers · asked by lets_smile07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would probaly miss the attention. But the other person whould probaly just realize that they don't have that kind of friend. You have to care for eachother. Not saying u don't u just made it sound like that. You have to care for eachother not just one for the other. You should make a deal with the person or whatever. She is a good friend for helping in the times of need but now its ur turn to be a good friend back.
Good luck
2007-03-17 08:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by Alexis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may mean that she doesn't have enough hours in the day to continue her devotion to the friendship and shes trying to fit everything in- afterall we are all human and sometimes we make mistakes and can't find a reason or explain why things happen. Friends are meant for life they are supposed to be honest and care fot you but sometimes they just lose the ability to communicate..
Although you feel as though you have been left in the dark, give a little too- give her the benefit of the doubt, there maybe a genuine reason for the delay. Just text her and make sure you tell that you will alway be there for her also as she may well be giving all and perhaps not meaning to you are taking..
give and take works in almost all relationships and friendships, so trust in what you have and you cant go far wrong,
if the worst comes to the worst, dont be disheartened, take it for what it is it may well be that she doesn't want to be friends anymore but ask pollitely and accept it move in with your life. As devastating as it might be in the end you will learn to move on and not worry. Do your best and you cant go far wrong
xx
2007-03-17 09:15:09 · answer #2 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking her about it and seeing what the deal is and how she replies. Maybe something happened to her and those are some of her ways of expressing it. Something similar did happen to me a few years ago. Some people are just meant to come and go out of our lives; only true friends remain, trust me. If she doesn't want to be friends anymore for whatever the reason, don't think there's anything wrong with you. And ya, you'll miss the ralationship, but try to move on and learn from it.
2007-03-17 10:10:20 · answer #3 · answered by pecans 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but the answer is still the same. Why don't you ask them why? Have they got a new partner so they don't have so much time on their hands? do you think perhaps that you have been using them? and now when they need some time and maybe some understanding, you are not listening but whining on about how much they have hurt YOU? Please just talk to them and find out what the problem is... asking us won't give you an answer...
2007-03-17 08:15:08 · answer #4 · answered by JENNIFER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is sad but people move on and get on with their lives. I used to have a best friend like yours and we were so close we were like sisters. Over time we drifted apart because of jobs, children and partners. As nice as it is and how special it made you feel she may just need some space and found the friendship too suffocating - just giver her space and find something to occupy yourself with or make new friends so that there isn't too much pressure put on your friendship
2007-03-17 08:14:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, the funny thing it does happen to people and friendships unfortunately. People just move on with life and friends change and we still keep our really good friends even if you don't talk every day they are the ones who are there for you when you really need them.
Good luck and try not to worry about it too much.
2007-03-17 08:19:24 · answer #6 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The love and care should still be there, except maybe she have something going on, maybe it is time for you to show some support and love to her, respect and caring is a two way drive.
2007-03-17 08:26:27 · answer #7 · answered by @!# 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your friend has something going on in her life, ask her if everything is ok with her - coz from what you have said she has always been there for you, but you never mentioned anything about being there for each other, maybe she needs someone and cant give you all the support you need because of it
2007-03-17 08:19:28 · answer #8 · answered by laneyb_1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 07:07:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some friendships just come to a natural end.Perhaps this is one. Find a new best friend.
2007-03-17 08:13:27 · answer #10 · answered by jet-set 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋