I have a lover, who is a lover and nothing more. In the beginning, I did want something more. But I gave that up, when I realised he just wanted the physical. I do have some feelings for him. Lately he's not been treating me with respect. And I've realised that he thinks I'll always meet him anyway. I've decided not to, to stop seeing him. And to be short when he texts me and tell him that I don't have time. That will teach him a lesson, cause we both know it will be hard for him to find someone else, and he knows it won't be hard for me to find someone new. Do you have any other suggestions about what I should do?
2007-03-17 08:07:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't do things out of spite. You are better than that. If you are going to leave him alone, do that. Don't keep him tagging along or believing in false hopes. Don't stand for anyone treating you lower that what you deserve. Love and move on. I know that it's easier said than done but you will gain maturity with every life experience.
2007-03-17 08:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's a problem, and you can find someone else,move on. But there's about a 50-50 chance the next one will end up as much drama, and a 50-50 chance the next one will be less drama. That's life.
Enjoy.
2007-03-17 15:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by mt_hopper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have taken the first step. Now, go on with your life and enjoy every day as if there were no tomorrow. When the time is right you will find what you are searching for and what you truly want.
Think of it like this, you can get lucky anytime, but....
2007-03-17 15:13:56 · answer #3 · answered by Nana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him if he doesnt leave you alone you'll get a restraining order! or if you still wanna work things out . talk to him and tell him how you feel, that you want more than sex. you want a real relationship!
2007-03-17 15:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clear your life of such drama and keep it that way.
2007-03-17 15:30:59 · answer #5 · answered by Grrr! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're doing good. Go girl!
2007-03-17 15:30:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋