i am creeped out... crossdresser situation?

Question

i just found out that my dad are crossdresser and he doesnt know i do know now... what i suppposed to do... live my life gulity or ?? what i do now?
fyi... i found out by accident...i found this picture album with my dad wearing woman clothes and a book...( i already hid them) but how can i deal with it?? knowing that my dad is not reall dad or??

Answer 1

Don't be a snott or a snob, I understand how shocking the discovery would be for you. I mean since the world tells you to hate what you don't understand. I also think it was wrong for your parents to hide this from you. But don't judge or Dis your Dad unless your educated enough on crossdressing to do so.

So are you perfect honey, little angel child so your Dad is not perfect either but if he's loved you and raised you as a decent human being then can't you show him the same respect.

Answer 2

It sounds like you might be concerned that your Dad is gay, bisexual, or perverted. It might be of interest to you to know that most crossdressers are straight heterosexual men and contrary to popular belief, gay men are rarely crossdressers. This is logical since gay men are attracted to other gay men - NOT to women. Many surveys have been conducted about crossdressing. Estimates indicate that about 10% of the male population crossdresses to some degree on with regular frequency. 90% of these are totally heterosexual.

Straight men who crossdress are known to have an appreciation and admiration for women that is far above that of the typical male. This admiration is one of the factors that makes many men want to impersonate the object of their admiration. You might think of it as a sort of play acting like one may have done as a child when emulating one of the personalities seen on television. They knew they weren't fictional superheros like superman or batman or any of hundreds of other well known figures, but for a little while it was fun to pretend they were. There is little doubt that at some time in your life you have also pretended in such a way.

Crossdressing is very similar in the respect that straight men don't actually want to BE women, but rather to experience what they believe it might feel like for short periods of time. Another reason is that the texture and feel of feminine clothing is quite different from that of the usual male attire. Also the softer fabrics and wide assortment of colors and styles available to women is an attraction. FYI, crossdressing is a means by which a lot of straight men have learned to relax and drain the stress of day to day life. You have to admit that this beats alcohol and drugs as a way to do so.

You can find a lot of good no-nonsense information at the web site listed below that might help you to better understand this need that your Dad has.

Answer 3

think about it like this. One, your dad has not changed. He is still your dad. He was a crossdresser before you knew, right? So he's no different now than he was then. Two, if you were say, gay, your dad would still love you regardless.

If it's going to make you feel guilty, then by all means, talk to him about it. You can phrase it in a question such as "Dad, I found this photo album, and it confused me a little. Can you explain?" That will help him open up about it. Good luck. That would be a little overwhelming.

Answer 4

There is no reason for you to feel guilty.

No matter how this works out you are you and only responsible for what you do.

There may be other explanations for the pictures or he may be a cross-dresser. Either way it is not criminal. And either way it is his thing.

You just be you.

Answer 5

It's time that you and him have a talk perhaps. Start it something like "I found some odd pictures of you." and let him explain.

Answer 6

Talk to a counselor about it, but still respect & love your dad for DAD. I know it's hard, but you gotta be STRONG.

Answer 7

assume nothing happened