before we get back together, we were separated for a year. for the reason that, my cousin saw him with another girl and he did not deny that but he said they were just friends. the thing is, that time when my cousin saw him,we already broke up but there was a constant communication and he was even getting back with me so i got disappointed when i know he was going out with someone else so we officially broke up. after that,i heard he was stil going out with the girl but months later he courted me again and he said, there was really nothing going on between them. but i still dont believe him but a year after, i see his efforts and his sincerity so i get back with him. and now, we're 3months together but the problem is, i still dont trust him and i have so many doubts in anything he do. what should i do?
2007-03-17 07:43:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
set him free your not going to trust him and you will never be happy with him
2007-03-17 07:50:56 · answer #1 · answered by dan m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My initial response is not to believe him. Why would he be spending so much time with someone else if he is trying to prove himself to you. But then another part of me says he could be telling the truth. But if he's lied before he can do it again. But its hard to be back with someone if you dont trust him. In the beginning he will reassure your doubts but im sure it wont be easy for you and after time, he might become irritated with you doubting him, and stop reassuring you and this will also cause probs. Best thing is get him to come forward no lies and just be totally honest about it all and then you guys can move forward.
2007-03-17 07:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by Simply Serina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still don't trust him you can chose to work through it or you can find someone else and have a relationship that works. Meet some new people find out what you want if you're meant to be together then it will work it out. There are lots of other people you meet some. :)
2007-03-17 07:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by crazy4orlando2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Lord - if you speak anyway like you type, he's in trouble....... It's like "blah, blah, blah, blah, blah....."
If you don't trust him then leave him. I don't understand why so many women ask this same question. If you don't trust him, your instincts are telling you what to do. The confusion you have is because by staying with him you are going against what your heart is telling you.
2007-03-17 07:50:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see how you are in a big situation.I think you should trust him.You love him right?And if you actually see him with someone then you should brake up.But if one of your friends sees him with another girl unless shes your true bestfriend...you dont need to break up...but ask him.That happened to me.
2007-03-17 07:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him 4 good
2007-03-17 07:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by MEGAN (HOTTIE) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust you instincts is what you do
2007-03-17 07:46:58 · answer #7 · answered by Butt Pirate. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just paranoid. Shag him and get it over with
2007-03-17 07:47:00 · answer #8 · answered by LA_Bruin786 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋