Do you think it's hypocritical?

Question

When men say that lesbians are hot, but get grossed out if a woman thinks that men kissing is hot? (it's true, just as many women think this as men)

Answer 1

No. I don't think that men kissing is nasty, and I am a lesbian. And contrary to what that guy up there said, I am very nice looking, and would not have trouble finding a man, just like I have no problems finding a girl.

Answer 2

Absolutely. I find men kissing and gay male erotica to be very hot. I freely admit this to people. I don't care. Why should a man be able to acknowledge that he finds lesbians to be a turn-on and that's just accepted but if a woman says she finds two men together to be erotic then she's "sick" or "gross"? Fck that.

Answer 3

Call me a romantic, but I only like kissing when its real, no matter if its het, gay or lesbian. When its fake, its like cardboard for breakfast: I don't think anyone fancies that!

But anyhow, to answer your question, men who look strong, sweaty and hairy are already a gross picture, and to see them kiss is just too much. But I do not fancy watching Oprah and Barbara Bush kiss, either, be they lesbians or not! But if you get two perfectly cute individuals (men or women) and see them kiss tenderly, oh, what a sight!

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Answer 4

The truth is, many straight men view women as sex objects. That's because Western society encourages this view. Not all men follow it, but quite a few do. Also, homosexuality is viewed as de-masculating. This is why straight porn usually doesn't show a lot of the man doing the sexing. Many straight men fear that if they see another man's penis or naked form, that they will 'become gay.' For this reason, lesbian porn is ideal: all guys, no penis, no risk of 'turning gay.'

Answer 5

Nope. They think it's hot because they think they're the ONE guy on the planet that the hot lipstick lesbians would invite to come over and watch - or participate.

Thinking of guys making out grosses them out because they wouldn't want to participate in that (or wouldn't want anyone to THINK they'd like to).

Answer 6

I'll be the first to say that they picture fantasy porn when making that statement. LOL Very few lesbians look like porno chicks.

Typical male thought about female image.

However, it IS more likely to see females together than males. We women are bisexual in nature weather or not we choose to admit it or act out on it. We're wired completely different than men.

Anyhow, I too think 2 guys having sex together is gross.

Answer 7

Ok, I'm a lesbian, I find it VERY annoying when I tell male friends that I'm gay, adn they expect me to make-out with a girl in front of them, so one day, one of my friends and I were out with some of my guy friends and they asked me to make out with her. I told them I would if they made out first. Of course that was out of the question! And NOT ALL LESBIANS CAN'T FIND A MAN! I'm currently single, and unfortunately, have had many ask outs by guys, and only a few by girls. It kind of sucks. And have you guys ever SEEN Carmen Electra or Angelina Jolie, they're both bi, same with Maxim model, and old Dallas Cowboy cheerleader Sarah Shahi!

Answer 8

yes i do! i love to see two men kiss as well as kiss a woman! but my hubby does not like to see two men kiss it "grosses" him out, but two women turn him on! it drives me crazy!!

Answer 9

Not necessarily. Women are works of art, not always functional for daily life, but always beautiful to look at. Men are utilitarian, useful for daily activities, but not anything you would hang on the wall in an art gallery.

Answer 10

Absolutely!!!! Why bother asking such a question ... you already know the answer!