i started this a job 2 weeks ago, i instatly became friends with the only other girl in my training class of another 8 boys. shes a lesbian which im fine with as im BI but m in a long term relationship with my bf. she has started picking on me though in a way that no one else will pick up but i do.
she makes fun of me in front of they guys trying to be funny but putting me down at the same time and as soon as the boys turn there back shes all like im sorry and every thing. its never done harshly, just a joking way the boys all like me so i dont think its anything to do we that
she txts me saying really flirty things. even my bf agrees with me she fancys me.
its almost like she fancys me but says mean things to me so that i dont think she does!
sorry to be long winded but i just dont know how to explain it!
HELP!!!!!!!!
2007-03-17 07:12:04 · 5 answers · asked by SWANNY AND SNUGGLES! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well ok no affence but that girl is really weird. Even for a lesbian like if she likes you why would she turn around and joke about you and stuff. Maybe she just trys to make you laugh and be funny when really inside its hurting you so you should ask her if she can stop joking around with the guys about you all the time if she really "fancys" you she will stop and maybe you can be friends with her better.
2007-03-17 07:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by David M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must be really insecure to put you down like that in front of people, you should tell her that in front of those boys the next time she does that. Believe me it will shut her up. As for texting you like that you want to tell her to leave you alone and to stop being so weird. Tell her if she doesn't you are going to have a word at work about the creepy way that she is going on with you. Good luck and put up with no nonsense from her.
2007-03-17 09:13:27 · answer #2 · answered by TB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her straight that you have a boyfriend and that you don't appreciate her saying things about you to others even if it is only a joke. Either that or play her at her own game start doing the same kind of jokes to her.
2007-03-17 07:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
slag her back, when she says something to you just ask her if thats the best shes got
ask if she is aware that no animals are allowed in the building so your just wondering why she brought her camel toe in!
shrug it off and dont let her bother you, you love your man and you dont want a realationship with her, so her opinion of you doesnt matter at all
2007-03-17 08:25:41 · answer #4 · answered by laneyb_1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that she is pissing you off and to stop being two faced. if she was really your friend she wouldnt be putting you down. and to tell her to cut it out with those texts because your already in a relationship.
2007-03-17 07:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋