i have a''friend'' whoose BI.we talk and hang around.people keep telling me she likes me.and wants to go out with me.butg one little problem I'M NOT BI.can you help in telling her to STAY AWAY.PLEASE
2007-03-17 07:00:48 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ Earth Angel ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Which people keep telling you this? Is it clear to her that you are not bi/are not interested?
It's a common stereotype that lesbian/gay/bisexual individuals are in love with everyone (for example, that lesbians are always in love with their girl friends) but it is not true.
Telling her to "stay away" is not a good idea. It is rude, and if she is a friend then you should not do that to her. If you value your friendship or potential friendship, just make sure it is clear that your romantic feelings are not returned, but in a tactful way.
2007-03-17 07:06:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. Just make up your mind, do you want to be her friend or not? Then think about wether those people who say she likes you are telling the truth. Just try to figure out whats going on. Oh! and if she really does like you, then tell her you don't feel comfortable around her. If she was really meant to be your friend, then she would understand!
2007-03-17 14:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by f00l. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you have to cut ties with people to do that. Sometimes you just have to stop hanging around people or they will not give up.
2007-03-17 14:11:11 · answer #3 · answered by octo75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the same with me, my friend is BI and she likes my other friend... just tell her that you need some time apart and that you dont want to go that way... and help them find someone else
2007-03-17 14:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by Manda J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a man fast and be all over him so she knows your taken.
2007-03-17 14:03:58 · answer #5 · answered by Curly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes your friend u dont worry about dumb sh*t like that u shouldnt consider her as different or black,just a friend!
2007-03-17 14:06:06 · answer #6 · answered by preppy1302 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to what other people say.. you need to ask her yourself. If she says she likes you.. tell her you arnt like that
2007-03-17 14:03:54 · answer #7 · answered by Megan28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY DO YOU WANT US TO HELP YOU IN TELLING HER TO STAY AWAY? YOU JUST SAID SHE IS YOUR FRIEND !!!! JUST TELL HER THAT YOUR NOT THAT WAY ! BUT YOU WANT TO REMAIN HER FRIEND! PRAY FOR HER! SHE IS ONE OF GODS CREATURES ! AS YOU ARE ! WHY EXILE HER ! YOUR BOTH IN MY PRAYERS SWEETHEART !
2007-03-17 14:07:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋