basically ive been with my bf for 3 yrs we split up recently and he moved back home but we said wed give it another try although he still tells me that he loves me during the week when it comes to the wknd all he wants to do is go out with his friends!do u think theres any hope for us?or do u think hes just lying to me about wanting to fix things with us?
2007-03-17 06:55:41 · 12 answers · asked by caz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im 23 hes 20 he thinks we got together to young (3yrs ago)(i have a little girl aswell) and that it can work but only if we move away but i said how can we move away to sort things out if hes not willing to sort things out here?
2007-03-17 07:05:54 · update #1
maybe he has mixed feelings about getting back together, thats why he says one thing and then does another. in cases like this, the best thing to do is do what is best for yourself. there is no garuantee that he will actually come back so you're better off making up your mind seperate from him. think about what you need in a relationship, is this guy capable of giving you that? i think when you look at it, you will find that he probably isnt really right for you and then maybe you can move on. also once you make your decision and possibly start to move on, if he really does want to be with you, he'll come running back. guys tend to take things for granted when they feel they have them, but take that stuff away and they come crawling back. good luck.
2007-03-17 07:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by asg_is_chillin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know, why did he broke up with you in the first place then if he still had feelings for you? Guys dont think huh? (i came across a lot of the same questions as yours before) Well, I guess he had to have a reason to break up with you. And maybe he was confused about wheter to continue or stay in a relationship with you because he doesnt want to lead you on. Anyway, its fine to get back together if you two still have strong feelings for each other. I guess he can be forgiven if he realizes his mistake to break up. I mean people never know what they are doing wrong, until after they realize that they have lost it.
You just have to decide for yourself wheter to get back with him or not. Think about how your relationship has gone through, are there more positive things than the negative things you gained from the relationship?
2007-03-17 07:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not lying, just thinks weekend evenings are for nights out with the boys.
Book a show for a Saturday or Sunday night, choosing something you know he is interested in, wait for his reaction the, if negative say 'OK My mum will come with me and we're having a couple of weeks together doing the things we like to do'.
Wait for the reaction!
2007-03-17 07:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by MANCHESTER UK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI !!! He young give him space act a little like not bothered but try to give him space if he for you will come back ? Try too hard you'll push him away never good.....
Try not to questio9n too uch but try to have a life yourself don't wait in for him or stop in go out when you can to show you have a life too...
Some men think women should stay in and be there when needed take them forgranted etc so don't be one of them look after your little one have fun and what will be will be
2007-03-17 11:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do you hang out with him through the week? or rarely? He is allowed to have friends. If he ignores you thats another story. Tell him how you feel and ask to spend 1 weekend together. Go to a park, go canoeing, go to the beach. Nice stuff that doesn't require a lot of buck. project confidence over all.
2007-03-17 07:03:57 · answer #5 · answered by Chris C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with him going out with his friends at the weekend if you're with him all week? Being part of a couple doesn't mean giving up your sense of identity. If you want to go out with him at the weekend then arrange it properly but don't try and make him drop his friends for you or he'll only resent it
2007-03-17 07:01:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is lying to you, but he's probably confused and he sounds quite immature. There's likely to be a part of him that feels comfortable with you and another part that wants to get out of the relationship, but he's not brave enough to do it. So he's caught. I suggest that you split it off. He's not good enough for you.
2007-03-17 07:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by Steph717 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have got together to young. If he wants to spend time with his friends that is fine but don't let him leave you dangling on a string.
2007-03-17 07:35:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old you are..I guess you asking this means you are young though....let him go...you should not be in a relationship when he takes his friends over you EVER............and if you are hurting? Why hurt when ther are guys out there that won't hurt you!
2007-03-17 07:00:34 · answer #9 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
may be at weekends he wants to go out with his pals
nothing wrong with that.
accept the way he is or find someone else.
the thing is do you want him as much as he wants you.
2007-03-17 06:59:41 · answer #10 · answered by **tomtom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋