I seem to be attracted to people who are about as attractive as I am, but I seem not to be attracted to people who are significantly better looking (Except from a purely aesthetic standpoint) or less good looking than I am. In the real world, most couples I see are more or less equally attractive. Do people most often have crushes and fall in love within their own "league" so to speak, or do they "settle"?
2007-03-17 06:43:54 · 4 answers · asked by Cybele 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I have to agree with you. I am the same way. I have always felt that I cannot get a guy that is significantly better looking than I am, nor I am really extremely attracted to them. I think that it seems to be that way. I'm sure we all know people who are attracted to others that we know they will never date because the other person is very attractive...snobby..etc.
2007-03-17 06:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by confused soul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that I think about it, most people seem to fall in love within their league. The majority of couples seem to be equally attractive.
2007-03-17 13:54:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heard somewhere that even if at first you don't find someone "attractive", you can build a relationship with them -- and if their qualities, their traits, their personality, and so on, interests, or matches what you desire.. then they may become more attractive, physically appealing to you.. and the whole your eyes may dilate when you are finding someone attractive or not (but not all the time, mind you.) so i guess its a mix of both and depends on the person. people settle and people look for just what they want.
2007-03-17 13:56:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
im attracted to girls that are hotter than the norm.
2007-03-17 13:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by Matt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋