My friend and I went skiing last night. It was our school's ski night. I'm going to call her Elizabeth, because that's her middle name, I can't give you her real one, sorry! So there's this guy, who is one of my best friends, he moved to where I live about 6-8 months ago, and he didn't make friends very quick, so I pulled him out of his shell, and now he's like the center of attention, don't get me wrong, I am thrilled that he didn't go through what I did when I moved.
So, it was his first time snowboarding, and my 12th. He had ridden the bus up to the moutain, and my dad had taken me and 'Elizabeth' so, I saw him having some trouble with his snowboard when he got off the lift, and 'Elizabeth' and I had made a deal. She was trying to get me to go down this one slope, so I was going to watch her a few times, and go down an easier slope after I saw her go down. So, after she went down, I went to talk to this guy, (the one that was having trouble with his snowboard). MORE TO COME!
2007-03-17 06:26:40 · 3 answers · asked by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
So, I waited for him, and then went down the slope with him. I had a blast, even though the slope was like 2 minutes long. I watched him snowboard, while I skiied, and it was really fun for me. So I got to the bottom, and 'Elizabeth' was slightly irritated at me, because I had been 5 minutes, mostly waiting for this guy.
Now, the thing is, that she's done the same thing to me all the time. I've almost missed my bus twice now because she was coming home with me, and went to talk to her friend, who happens to be a guy. So, her and I barely caught my bus. I told her it was really bothersome, but that I didn't mind. I expected her to return the favor. But she didn't?
I just want to know what you all think, am I being to harsh? Is she being silly? Please help!
2007-03-17 06:31:24 · update #1
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Responce to Ambercrombie
**Sorry if I spelt that wrong.
The think is, 'Elizabeth' always expects nice back when she is nice. She's very very mature, an only child, very daring, but she doesn't really understand me I guess? I like your answer though, it goes along with my yin-yang belifes. I wish I could tell 'Marie' my other friend who is as close as possible to me about this, but I don't know..... Thanx!
2007-03-17 07:29:01 · update #2
Responce to Stacie:
I like your answer too, I think you're right, I really love talking to this guy, he's so different from everyone I've ever met, he's the only reason I haven't gotten transfered out of my science class. My teacher likes to teach math in a confusing fashion. *note, this is a ***SCIENCE*** class. I don't think she understands how much I love to talk to him though, I don't know......
2007-03-17 07:31:02 · update #3
People are so crazy nowadays. Like, they expect you to do something for them that's nice, right? Then when you do the thing they did, you expect them to cut you some slack but they don't.
My advice is to just ignore it. Your friend had no right to be irritated with you. You were just helping out a guy with his snowboard and there's nothing wrong with that. Tell your friend that you don't think she should have been irritated by that because you didn't know the guy was going to be that long. Also tell her that many times she's done similar to what you have and you're very nice about it-and that you'd like her to try and do the same. So yes, your friend is sort of being silly.
Good luck!!
2007-03-17 06:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only advice I can think of is maybe you should be less expecting. Not to be rude, but when you do nice to others, we shouldn't expect nice back. You will earn kinness back, because what IS true is that when you do good to others, you receive good back. So, even though she did not return the favor, appreciate it, knowing something even BETTER will be coming along for you, sweetie. But keep on being a good friend. Glad I could help!
2007-03-17 14:17:35 · answer #2 · answered by m♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never ever choose between a guy and your friend. because that guy will turn around and date your friend. what favor are you talking about? waiting for you to talk to some guy? forget about that, you might not ever see him again. you must not get out much?
2007-03-23 22:33:49 · answer #3 · answered by LENA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋