Why am I an ultra sensitive person?

Question

A little background first. My father died when I was 11, My mother and stepfather both have cancer, and my stepfather is having further medical problems with circulation. I haven't had a steady girlfriend in years, and am still horribly bitter towards the longest lasting.

I have been told I have a type A personality except for my certain sensitivities.

I seem to think that I feel like I am partially female. Things bother me, people call me ultra sensitive, and I get bothered by decisions I make. I second guess myself constantly to make the best decisions, instead of just making one. I'm afraid about how I'm going to succeed in the future by what Im doing in college.

How does one harden up to become a man. I'm sick of not being taken seriously.

Answer 1

Maybe you just feel vulnerable, the fact that your father is not around may have affect you. Maybe you feel that life is too fragile and short, and you might be sensitive cause you are worried about something bad happening to you.

We, people, are great at judging others. You may be just reacting on how people have told you a man should be or behave. Just be yourself and have faith on what you are doing. If you feel you are not going to suceed on the path that you had choose, well change it.....

Being hard and brave is not about not being scared or sensitive, it is about keep going and fighting no matter how scared you are. As time passes and you see that you have overcome your issues and that life keeps going on, you will feel more secure and able to face life.