Im really feeling low at the moment. I do have two friends but they never go out anywhere at nightime, they are pretty boring. I want to expand my friend network but everyone that i know at uni already have their own friends and dont seem interested. Is this the end for me. I didnt really make any friends at school or college, and i feel that this is it. I was shy because i have been bullied in the past and im weary of people.
I feel like nobody really cares as long as they are ok and having a good time.
I want to be able to go out at nightime and have a social life but i dont have one. What can i do. I try and talk to people but they are acquiantances- not real friends????
2007-03-17 05:52:42 · 8 answers · asked by sarah 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I want serious answers ok. I am very weary of people, coz i have been used by people in the past and have dropped many people claiming to be 'friends'.
2007-03-17 05:54:47 · update #1
If you want human beings as friends, what are you doing on here. I personally find it difficult to make friends. I am picky. You need friends from your own social network. All you will get here is stupid suggestions as I did.
2007-03-17 06:09:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing more off putting than someone who appears depressed and too needy..so smile and be friendly to everyone, join some groups, ask groups if you can tag along on nights out and just keep it light and friendly...and of course cultivating friendships takes time, so dont worry about them just being aqquaintances at the moment, just take an interest in them, be supportive, offer help and they will become friends in time.
2007-03-17 06:02:44 · answer #2 · answered by slsvenus 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont have loads of friends only a few but im quite close to them,i dont go out that much,you need to go out if not you willl not find people to go out with,what about people you work with? thats how ive met most of my friends thru work then gone out i have people i talk to aswell nut dont really go out with them,dont get down about it,ive been in the same situation i thought knowone cared but now i tell myself i have to go out at least twice a week and have a realy good time,be happy and go have fun take care xx
2007-03-17 06:02:12 · answer #3 · answered by DREAMER 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it takes a long time to find a decent friend but when u do find one u will be happy, carry on being yourself and see if there is any clubs that u are interested in that u could join.
Stay positive and be strong ull get there in the end.
2007-03-17 06:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try setting up a page on myspace.com, you get to meet different people from all over the world and also lots of people in your area.. have a look and see what you think.
2007-03-17 06:19:29 · answer #5 · answered by jem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same boat im looking for some good friends too im shy myself... i just cant seem to find any...
2007-03-17 10:39:46 · answer #6 · answered by gardenia33_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if only for the reason that I select all my friends myself - in accordance with my tastes, principles and convictions.
2007-03-17 06:01:20 · answer #7 · answered by Peter V 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be a good Friend
2007-03-17 05:58:07 · answer #8 · answered by andrew h 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋