2007-03-17 05:39:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
call it quits, it seems if he would do that that he does not like you
2007-03-17 05:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by itititit4 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
That is low down behavior coming from your husband and he is showing you total disrespect,its like sleeping with the enemy,because he can`t be trusted.The only way to handle this is to nip it in the bud now.Since you kids are involved now they should be involved when you confront him about this back stabbing behavior.The family should sit down and you should demand that he stop badmouthing you to your kids,so they will understand this is not acceptable behavior,when you get him alone let him know in no uncertain terms that you are not going to accept his behavior,and if you can`t work together you are capable of working alone.You will defuse the impact this is having on your children if the manipulation is brought out in the open,it is a form of abuse and you need to take a stand or you will be giving your kids permission to act out the same behavior as their pathetic father.lol
2007-03-17 05:52:21 · answer #2 · answered by aminuts 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the unhappy actuality is that someone is for sure mendacity and there is not any way you'll ever be conscious of for particular who. So i wager i'd attempt to administration anybody at a time. clarify on your MIL that you do take care of her and the SIL. tell your husband that it will heavily damage your marriage in case you experience you won't be able to disclose to him or believe him. If he extremely did not say something like that, then he shouldn't ideas in case you convey it up in the front of the MIL and see what he says. call him on it.
2016-11-26 02:12:47 · answer #3 · answered by zukowski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best advice to you is to not take it personally. He's probably trying to be the "buddy" and make you the "bad guy." If you can begin to stop worrying about what he's telling the kids and be the best person you can be, he'll stop saying those things about you.
Loving yourself is the best remedy to the problem, for all involved. You'll set a wonderful example for your teens ("No matter what, I love me."), your husband will gain respect for you and not have anything bad to say about you, and, most importantly, you will be happy.
It takes time and practice to learn to love yourself, but start today! Look in a mirror and say, "I am willing to learn to love myself. Everyone around me will benefit from my love." Give it a try and see the good things that happen.
2007-03-17 05:47:16 · answer #4 · answered by boogeysmommy 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Doesn't your husband realize by doing this he is teaching your sons to disrespect you? He is also undermining anything you say to them so they will not listen to you because he has not given you the respect you deserve. One day your children will grow up and will treat their wives the same. What a shame.
2007-03-17 05:44:31 · answer #5 · answered by devilgal031948 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Have a frank discussion with him and explain that he's not just conditioning them to disrespect you but all authority figurs including himself.
Once they disagree with him on anything, they'll treat him the same. They just like him now because hes on their side.
2007-03-17 05:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
He won't stop. When that starts happening, it's there to stay.
Make sure you have good relationship with your kids and they will be able to see their father's error on their own.
2007-03-17 05:42:26 · answer #7 · answered by tamara_cyan 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
How could you marry someone who badmouths you!!!!
No assume your fault!
I mean talk to him,this is a bad habit,talk to him seriously!
Good luck :)
2007-03-17 05:42:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
File for a divorce! I wouldn't allow this "Emotional and Verbal" abuse to go on.
2007-03-17 05:43:19 · answer #9 · answered by † Walk by Faith † 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You call him a jerk in front of everyone's back. If he keeps on doing that, no one will respect you anymore. Teach him a lesson.
2007-03-17 05:42:06 · answer #10 · answered by moulin.rouge 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Just tell him how it is, don't take that sh**! Tell him if he has a problem talk to you about it, and not your kids, it's none of their business.
2007-03-17 05:43:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋