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They are probably into it due to something going on upstairs. Sometimes it is due to not accepting their own feminine drives. They feel that to act on those drives are wrong, but that if someone forced them to act upon them, that is somehow okay.

In an online conversation I had with someone online who was a therapist, she believed that there were times in a child's life where they were susceptible to developing fetishes. So she believes that if a child witnessed certain things or certain things were done to them, and this was during one of those key stages of development, then a fetish or similar interest could attach themselves to them, and it will be next to impossible to get rid of it. That seems to fit in with Freudian theories. So a child could be forcibly dressed as a girl during say their Oedipus stage and later on in life, they want what was uncomfortable when they were young because it somehow has an erotic significance attached to it.

This has nothing to do with true-transsexualism, since a transsexual would never consider their femininity to be sick, wrong, a perversion, or whatever. It is not something to be forced into, but to be embraced. If someone has to be forced to act like a woman, chances are, they really never were one inside.

2007-03-17 04:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

I think you're operating off the wrong basis that homosexuality has something to do with femininity. To clear things up: there is nothing necessarily feminine about homosexuality.

Being feminized isn't at all related to having gay desires. If anything, it's more like having transsexual desires or crossdressing fetishes that come out when they are forced upon someone (maybe because he likes the combination of gender play and BDSM, or maybe because he has mental blocks, and being forced frees him to do it).

Remember, the only thing that is gay is loving men. If you it when a woman makes you put on a bra and heels, that's a little different from the standard guy, but it definitely doesn't say anything about his sexual orientation.

Hope that helps.

2007-03-17 09:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

I'm assuming it's because the Western media forces men into an unrealistic macho ideal of 'strong and silent strength.' In this ideal, guys aren't supposed to show emotions and must always be in control. Forced feminization allows a man to relax and let the woman take control for once. It's a liberating experience.

2007-03-17 08:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by roxusan 4 · 1 0

If you get a definitive answer to this question, publish
and take your million dollars.

Certainly some have been humiliated by being forced
to cross dress when they were young - and perhaps
given more attention dressed in drag than normal.

However, others have no such pattern.

Some the behavior ties closely to more standard
submissing behavior (as in BDSM). But again,
many have no desire to be abused in any other way
than this sort of forced activity, perhaps with
an enhanced humiliation aspect to it (such as being
shown off to other women).

As kinks go, its pretty harmless, but it sure can
screw a guys life up.

2007-03-17 04:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by Elana 7 · 2 1

I know of no men who are forced into feminization. Of course, I am unclear as to exactly what "feminization" is, but I would still answer to the negative.

2007-03-17 04:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by castle h 6 · 0 3

I've been force fed, forced to clean my gym locker and forced to obey the laws...but forced into "feminzation"? Is that a remote prison island somewhere near Cuba?

2007-03-17 04:32:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2 2

It may appear that way, Hon but I think it's really by choice.

2007-03-17 05:37:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

i think we all spend way too much time caring what others wear or who they are sleeping with. as long as it does no harm. we all are free to do and be what we wish to be. i cross dress, and there is nothing wrong with me. live and let live.

2007-03-17 06:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by Jimmy C 2 · 2 1

Is mommy making you wear her panties and stockings again? Ah, but you like it, don't you?

2007-03-17 04:44:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5 3

Um... What?!

2007-03-17 04:31:35 · answer #10 · answered by searching_please 6 · 4 1

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