2007-03-17 04:27:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you sure its not more Lust than Love ? for Pete's sake honor your marriage vow's , if you people would spend as much time concentrating on loving there spouse's as you do looking for someone else to love theses questions would not need to be asked .
2007-03-17 05:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not exactly sure what you are asking here as this question is not very clear. If you are in love with more then just your wife then you should let the other person go and work on your marriage and love with your wife. Go on the Jerry Springer show if need be and i feel you need counseling and help as well. You also need to be honest with your spouse about what you are feeling and work on your marriage and seek marriage counseling if need be.
2007-03-17 11:36:57 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you married you made a commitment to the other person to be faithful amongst other things. There is nothing wrong with being attracted to someone else. The problem come when and if you act upon that attraction.
If you can not choose then it is better to let the friend go and concentrate on your marriage. What's to say you leave your spouse, marry the friend and then become attracted to someone else again?
Give thanks for what you have and give that relationship all you have.
2007-03-17 11:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by o_s_c_c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't allow it to develop.I would have stopped the attraction from the start and wouldn't have let my self dwell in the feelings that were becoming some thing more.We all have control of what we do and what we want we just make excuses and reasons why it's ok or convince ourselves the situation is out of our hands.Making the right choices in life is what brings true peace and sometimes that means passing up something we want and don't need.
2007-03-17 14:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bury all feelings and come clean with your husband or wife. They deserve to know! When you married him or her you made a committment. If that means nothing to you, then ask youself-Why would a marriage with this person work?
2007-03-17 11:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave to another place and find another person to love and not waste yer time fooling about with someone who is already taken! OH GOD!!!
2007-03-17 11:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by joulsey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave your spouse and be with the person you love. You will regret it for the rest of your life if you don't.
2007-03-17 11:30:41 · answer #7 · answered by kmankman4321 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
break off the realtionship or you will end up in divorce court. Good luck.
2007-03-17 11:30:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're not in love...you are more than likely just bored...don't throw away a marriage that easily
2007-03-17 11:30:16 · answer #9 · answered by Knome Lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should respect your husband and forget the friend
2007-03-17 11:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by emma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋