i'm 18 years old. i'm a Filipino
I've been in a serious relationship w/ my gf but then we broke up. how will i forget her,? how can i able to move-on? it's very difficult for me to lose her but i have no choice but to stay apart from her. we broke up because she don't like me anymore. i Don't know what's the reason. i did all my best just stay her from me.. i cared for her a lot. i gave all my love .. i gave all my time. a gave everything!!! she didn't appreciate it all..... i'm very dissaponted because i promise to myself that whatever happen i won't give up on her because i love her so much!! i can't explain why i love her so much. maybe i'm feeling the real love.. help me!!!!!!!!
2007-03-17 04:14:02 · 5 answers · asked by JP 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sorry to tell you this but the only thing that will help is TIME. I have been in the same situation and over time you simply stop caring so much. It gets better every day. Keep yourself busy.
2007-03-17 04:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by Lal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... at 18, I think you should take the next five years of intersexual relationships that you have as "lessons."
in fact, think of all your relationships as examples, and learn to learn from them. Everyone God puts in your life, is there for a reason.
If you are hurting now, there is a reason, and I suspect that is because you have given this incredible degree of attention to this one girl, and yet, she has rejected you. Why did you feel so enamoured with her? What made it "so special?" Were you intimate with her? Maybe you should not have been so quickly entwined?... who knows.
This much I know. At 18, you are as hyped up as you may ever be in your life, your senses will be reeling over anything you fixate on, and if they are fixated on only ONE thing, I hope the ONE thing is healthy. I would not suggest you make that one thing a female. They, like you at this age, are easilly distracted, and, like you, can become fixated.
Imagine if you had a girl you liked, who you only liked, but she became fixated on YOU. Her love, her money, her devotion, her whole being, at your disposal. If you only liked her, she would be annoying wouldn't she? Every love letter would affirm her devotion, and increase the gap between you.
Be 18 for a while. Stop trying to make full life decisions before you even know fully who YOU are.
If you want a relationship with permanance, try one with Jesus first... then go on from there.
As for the pain?.. it fades.. and you grow from it; remember it and let it teach you.
2007-03-17 05:14:47 · answer #2 · answered by Beyond 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r still young only 18,u've plenty of opportunity in tackling gf.there must have reasons y she left u,try to find out from her carefully.if not forget about her n look 4 someone new.good luck.
2007-03-17 04:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will be verry hard to forget her but a way i think that helps is to think of well if there was any think of all the times she would make you mad or piss you off just think of the bad stuff not the good things cause if you start thinking about the good things is going to make you think of her and start missing her and thats wants going to make you want her more
2007-03-17 04:22:27 · answer #4 · answered by *LaTiNa_BoNiTa* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe try to get back with her if you really love her then you would!!! If you dont want to do that then look for someone new who will care and appreciate EVERYTHING you give her!!!
2007-03-17 04:20:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋