how can i tell her that everytime she is with her boyfriend she is very nasty way to me and when on her own she is like real nice friend i dont want to cause arguments but i cant have a friend who is nice one miniute then different the next i have trying to confront her but everytime i do she makes me feel guilty is there other way to tell her so thatshe feels guilty
2007-03-17 03:48:54 · 8 answers · asked by blue_lead_sky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think she is scared of her boyfriend liking you...so she is nasty to you when he is around...are you prettier than her????? just be honest and tell her to stop being the way she is or she can go find another friend that will put up with her.....
2007-03-17 04:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by missnicedell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her straight, an unpredictable friend is like a bomb that hasen't exploded yet, she can turn on you at any time without warning. There is no reason why she can't treat you nice while her boyfriend is around. You do need to confront her about it tho, or it'll fester.
Good luck.
2007-03-18 13:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by buffykim2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her why is she making you guilty. Its common sense, everyone has constant attitudes. Tell her she has problems. If she thinks she can be mean to you, then tell her u wont be her friend anymore. This is just a thought, but maybe she acts differently the way kids act differently to parents when friends are over, because they dont want them to get embarassed. This is just stupid, tho.
2007-03-17 03:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by desigal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her. If she doesnt listen you could try writing a letter. Its not fair of her to treat you differently when she's with her boyf. Ask her why she does this. It could be that she doesnt know how to tell you she wants to be alone with him. If she continues to be nasty or wont listen then I would seriously reconsider being her friend. Good luck!
2007-03-17 03:54:51 · answer #4 · answered by hiddenmyname 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think telling her will change anything. She has made it clear that she doesn't want to hear it. Just visit with her without her boyfriend around. If she's with him constantly, spend time with other friends until she no longer is seeing this guy.
2007-03-17 03:56:36 · answer #5 · answered by Mike M. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introduce her to your boyfriend, if you have one and see what shes says then. Often girls can be spiteful when in company but not on a one to one basis. She is showing off, in my book and this is something she will have to learn a hard lesson from. You might be the Teacher.
2007-03-17 03:54:06 · answer #6 · answered by MANCHESTER UK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend like that is no friend at all.....Give her the big E!
2007-03-17 04:58:51 · answer #7 · answered by maureen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to stay away from them when they are together -- maybe she'll get the point.
2007-03-17 03:56:00 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Nightcall 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋