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My mum said " watch i am going to make your life a hell, i am going to make sure and pray to god and punish you.' I am only 15 i haven't done anything bad i am just depressed my mum is making it worse dad isn't helping,Nobody is really :-( help!!!!

2007-03-17 01:49:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

23 answers

PRAY! I'm praying for you. Hang in there!!

2007-03-17 03:23:21 · answer #1 · answered by JeSuSrOcKz! 3 · 1 1

Your Mum is being unreasonable then. And to go to that length to show her unhappiness at you? Well thats not right. Have you got an Family relative that you are close to? Friends can help, but older more mature people are better at getting things done. Your friends will be good for support. Go to a adult you trust...a teacher...a friends mum or dad. And take it from there. I'm sorry if I haven't been much help. I am your age, and can understand how you feel. This world is rubbish! The only thing that gets me through it is the fact is that I share in the hope of everlasting life in a paradise earth promised in the Bible. Taking steps to get out of depression is hard, but you have to push yourself. Mature friends can help you with this.

Take care xxxx

2007-03-17 01:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by Missy B 2 · 0 0

Don't worry, God isn't going to punish you if you haven't done anything. He doesn't listen to that kind of "prayer." Sounds like your mom has some problems. Try to talk to an adult you can trust, maybe a teacher at school or a nurse? If she is physically abusing you, call a child help line--look online or in the phonebook. (I don't know where you live or I'd know which one to recommend.)
Bear up, honey, I know it's so hard. My parents were abusive to me too. Do try and get some help. (((Hugs for you.)))

2007-03-17 01:55:28 · answer #3 · answered by anna 7 · 1 0

hi hunny its time you stood up and be counted for as a child come teenager the first thing you need to do is phone child line dont worry its free and they wont tell your parents but dont use house phone use phone box tell them how u feel then tell your teacher or a teacher who u can talk to and most of all you can go see your gp as you is 15 and you dont want medication i feel so ashamed to not be able to come to u and just give you a big huge as at the end of the day u need to feel and be loved by parents not treated like some piece of dirt so YOU DO NOT NEED TO ACCEPT THIS GET HELP AND NOW OK GOOD LUCK

2007-03-17 02:06:27 · answer #4 · answered by sarah-lou 2 · 0 0

Draw a pentagram on you mums door,

nail something dead to the middle of it

in pigs blood from the chemist say


Should freak her ut if she is relgious...


Wont do anything other then smell and need a clean up

write

You hurt me your dead.


Plus call childline


www.childline.org.uk

08001111


Your mum is wrong not you.

She hurts you you hurt her back twice as bad.

Also gods dont exist...

hell does not exist



Therefore tell your mum she mentions god you can have her committed to a mental ward sfor seeing things which dont exist.


www.kravmaga.co.uk

for martial arts lessons in case she gets violent

or similar thing in your areas.

Also get survailance geer if in London Tottenham court raod is good for this so you have eveidence and prrof.


Just as she is your mum does not mean she is right or good.


Oh and if this is as you are interested in boys, boyfriends, sex, kissing, boy bands etc... she is wrong and you are right... al that is normal and natual and morally good.


even if you are gay


thats fine too.


its bullying thats bad

2007-03-17 03:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

Why would your mother speak to you in this way???? Have you done something to upset her or anger her????
I know it's not easy being a teenager.
\try speaking calmly to your parents and find out the way forward as in what can you do to make things better at home. If they know you are upset and what things between you to get better then they may be pleased and happy to help.

2007-03-17 03:45:58 · answer #6 · answered by laplandfan 7 · 0 0

do you have another family member you can confide in? Grandma Aunt, Uncle? if not try the guidance couselor at school, I hope there isn't any physical abuse going on,,..but any kind of abuse should be told to somone if you fear your safety and have noone you can talk to then tell the police or anyone that you know will help...good luck

2007-03-17 01:54:28 · answer #7 · answered by sonialynnl 3 · 0 0

Seek yourself some friendly counsel from elsewhere.

Try to understand the unreasoned behaviour that you are witnessing from the people who are meant to be closest to you. Are their own lives falling apart and causing them to lash out at you? Do they see unfulfilled potential in you? What is their background, are they breaking down before you?

Seek help from people who show care and concern for you!

2007-03-17 01:56:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

im sure she isnt going to make your life hell as im 16 and my mum says that to me everyday.

i found out that if you want to stop her nagging you, you should just do what she says even if its booring and you will get rewarded for it, she'll stop nagging and think you a good girl, then when your a good girl you can take advantage of her by getting extra POCKET MONEY ha ha ha its so cool.


ps if you ever have any problems im here and happy to help

2007-03-17 01:57:13 · answer #9 · answered by badmannn 3 · 0 1

I don't understand why she would say this..but you should ask her what her problem is and then you should go seek for help, like a family consellor for example. Good Luck and let God be with you.

2007-03-17 01:54:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ur mom is going to get punished when she gopes up to heaven, so just ignore her. but also, if u want to, u can ask her y she is doing that! its not ur fault ur depressed, it is a disease, like asthma or not being able to walk or acid reflex!!! tell her (nicely!) that u feel she isnt helping and u would like for her to be nice to her! when i wuz depressed, my mom helped me thru it. if that doesnt work, just go to uor friends houses every day. good luck!

2007-03-17 05:38:14 · answer #11 · answered by Jillian 2 · 0 0

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