My mum said " watch i am going to make your life a hell, i am going to make sure and pray to god and punish.' I am only 15 i haven't done anything bad i am just depressed my mum making it worse dad isn't helping,Nobody is really :-(
2007-03-17 01:48:37 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Family life is hell! I haven't done anything wrong apart from being depressed!
2007-03-17 01:55:35 · update #1
Your mother should want you to be happy. That's what mother's do, speaking from personal experience. I really feel for you because to me this seems like abuse. You need to speak to someone about your depression asap. There are many organisations for teenagers in your situation. I've linked them below. PLEASE speak to someone now.
2007-03-19 03:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by niccog26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What an awful thing for your mother to say to you, no wonder you are feeling depressed. You are right, you have done nothing bad or wrong, It would be a good idea to talk to your guidance teacher at school, who could maybe organise a counsellor for you to talk to. You could also call childline (sorry dont know the number, try the phone book). It's difficult enough being 15 without your parents talking to you like that, they may have their own problems but they shouldn't take it out on you. Now remember this, you are a great and special person, with your whole life ahead of you. look to some people you admire in life and try to take inspiration and strength from them, keep your chin up sweetheart, I'm sure things will get better.
2007-03-17 09:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by JayJay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why does your mum want to make your life hell. Surely she wouldn't decide to punish you for no reason? If that is the case then you need to talk to someone who understands and isn't going to make things worse for you during this bad time. Good luck x
2007-03-17 08:51:42 · answer #3 · answered by jellybean55 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
normally sumone would say sumthing like that if u had done something really bad but that would still be a really harsh thing to say talk to a friend, another mamber of your family who you trust, a teacher or call childline if things get really bad just make sure you tell someone dont keep it to your self. i hope things get better for you darlin good luck xxxx o and you could even try asking your mum if you really havent done anything wrong what it is that shes so angry about. hope this helps xxxx
2007-03-19 12:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by Lauren 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so sad on many levels. As a parent she should be wanting you to have a happy life and should want to do anything to make that happen.
Is she punishing you for doing something that you shouldn't? The only thing I can think of is she is speaking out of anger for some reason.
2007-03-17 08:57:34 · answer #5 · answered by zinntwinnies 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My parents said things like that all the time to me when I was little. You should really focus on the good in your life. Remember, your mum is a person - seperate from you and she cannot make your life worse. You are in control of your life and your mum can only do things that make it SEEM like she is making it worse. Remember, to make her charge to make your "life a hell" more difficult to accomplish, the cessation of self-desire is always effective.
2007-03-19 06:18:02 · answer #6 · answered by Kyle K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were very brave to come out to your parents and tell them you are depressed and you don't need to regret that, no matter what they are doing now. It's hard, I am sure, because we think the world of our parents when we are growing up and we always believe them and whatever they say or at least we want to, because they are our whole world. It is painful to realize that our parents can be wrong. What your parents are doing to you is wrong. It is probably hard for you parents to deal/cope with your depression, and they don't really know how to help. Have you talked to them at all?
2007-03-17 08:54:15 · answer #7 · answered by Hazel l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What has made her say that? Was it like really random? Or is family life just hell? Try talking to friends, teachers, or someone like that or go to the doc (without telling your parents) saying you feel depressed... and that you want to talk to someone about it... and as that should be confidential they can't tell your mum, unless they think your in real danger to yourself.
2007-03-17 08:53:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to your school counciler. they will get dhs involved. what she has said to you is verbal abuse. the state can take you away for that and put you in a foster home. If you have a grandmother or aunti that will listen to you maybe you should talk to them first. they may take you in for a while. But i do know that a 15 year old girl can make a mother nuts. They are a pain in the butt. as mine is 17 and on the honor roll, a good kid but can be a real pain in the butt. we just had another fight yesterday.
2007-03-17 08:53:16 · answer #9 · answered by Shelly t 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a problem from both sides more from your mum, shes going to make your life hell? if you want pro advice phone childline on 08001111 but i would try to be a bit more happy although i know its very hard, it gets easier though.
Good luck
2007-03-19 12:11:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Draw a pentagram on you mums door,
nail something dead to the middle of it
in pigs blood from the chemist say
write
You hurt me your dead.
Plus call childline
www.childline.org.uk
08001111
Your mum is wrong not you.
She hurts you you hurt her back twice as bad.
Also gods dont exist...
hell does not exist
Therefore tell your mum she mentions god you can have her committed to a mental ward sfor seeing things which dont exist.
www.kravmaga.co.uk
for martial arts lessons in case she gets violent
or similar thing in your areas.
Also get survailance geer if in London Tottenham court raod is good for this so you have eveidence and prrof.
Just as she is your mum does not mean she is right or good.
Oh and if this is as you are interested in boys, boyfriends, sex, kissing, boy bands etc... she is wrong and you are right... al that is normal and natual and morally good.
even if you are gay
thats fine too.
its bullying thats bad
2007-03-17 10:51:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋