What do u do if your partner spent all his money for his friends and family members, plz help me and advice me
How do u react if your BF lives for his family members, for his brothers and sisters, when he spent his income to buy things for them.... suppose u r not married to ur boy and u asked him to make good income so that we will be able to stand by ourself, later after some years u see him he didnt earn anything what he earned he gave all that money for his brothers and sisters who got married and settled, also he spend money for buying gift for his family members and friends more than a limit.... what do u do he is not living for you, not for himself but living for others.... i mean for his family members and friends... do you think he will look after you and kids after marriage?.....
My partner is the same, he lives for his family members eventhough they got married and have kids, and for his friends,,, he is asking me to give more than a million to marry him? What do u do if u were in my situation?
are u ready to marry a man like that?....
2007-03-17 01:40:47 · 7 answers · asked by ann m 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
He is not saving any of his income, he is buying so many electrical goods, perfmues, laptops, desktop, camcorder, dvd, mobile phones... he buyed a lot for his neighbours, for his friends and for his family. I am his love i asked him to save a little for our future he doesnt seem to save anything, he dont have an apartment or house..... he is living in his sisters house..... why he doesnt understand future... why he is blind.. no other friends spend money for him including his family members but he does... what i have to do friends
2007-03-17 01:44:35 · update #1
HE IS NOT ONLY A GIVER HE IS DEMANDING MONEY TO MARRY ME FROM MY PARENTS BUT I DIDNT TEL TO MY PARENTS ABOUT MY AFFAIR, MORETHAN 2 MILLION HE WANT FROM ME...
2007-03-17 01:49:23 · update #2
My husband is my best friend and would do anything for me or our child FIRST then if we have more to give he will help our other family and friends. If you can't trust that he will take care of you and any little ones you have DON'T MARRY HIM!!!
2007-03-17 01:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by First Time Momma 7/26/07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is helping his friends and family all the time and has been doing this for awhile, it does not sound like he will ever quit. What will you have ? I would not marry a person like this. I would have to think of my future and what it would be like if I did marry him. It doesn't sound like it would be a very good marriage. His friends and family would benefit and you never would, and you would never get ahead as long as he did this. You would have nothing and the people he gives to would have everything. He would not be a good provider for you or a family.
2007-03-17 01:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by awr1956 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE YOU EVEN PREGNANT? WHAT DOES THIS HAVE TO DO WITH PREGNANCY?
I'm not willing to marry a man like that.. the real question isn't about me, though is it? It's about YOU- are YOU willing to marry a man like that??
Honestly, none of it makes any sense to me. You're rambling on about how he spends all his money on his siblings and family and doesn't save anything... again and again.. but then wants a $2 million from your family to marry you? WHAT? What planet would that occur on? How many people seriously will ever be able to get their hands on $2 million? None of this sounds truthful to me.
If some guy really spends all his money on his friends & family but wants money from yours to marry you, I say RUN! RUN AS FAST AND AS FAR AS YOU CAN GET!
2007-03-17 02:15:52 · answer #3 · answered by Trouble's Mama 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry you have confused me a little here.
So the guy you are wainting to marry is very giving? Is that it? I think he will watch his spending after he gets married most men like to spend but when they get married they know what they need to do then and if they don't you tell them and guid them. At least he is not spending all his money on himself. He seems very giving now dont you be selfish.
2007-03-17 01:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by hudgey 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Marriage vows have a little line in them about "forsaking all others". Your spouse should come first and if he can't do that now he won't do that later. If you have doubts run the other way.
2007-03-17 01:45:08 · answer #5 · answered by zinntwinnies 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, as per your description, I would never go for marrying such a person.
Be kind to yourself, and find someone who cares for you first, then others.
2007-03-17 02:14:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question is, are you willing to marry a guy like that???
2007-03-17 02:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋