My husband and I are both in school we live in a nice neighborhood and we have three kids. 10, 6 and 3 we just found out there is another on the way which we are happy about but worried about what people will say. we wanted to have the last one before I turned 30. I am 29. We live in a decent sized 2 br apartment near a nice town and we have the kids in the master bedroom with their own bathroom. We have a yard and our own Wash/dry. We also have a decent size living room, dining room, and eat in kitchen. Our only obstacle is that we can not buy a house right now. We need atleast 15% to buy one at this point. I would be happy to stay here. My sons bed can be changed to a loft bed and we can put the crib under it. We spend most of our days at work/school. and our rent is cheap. I don't want to move out to the boonies to buy a cardboard house that we can't afford. I would rather stay here and give them love and buy a house here when we can in a couple of years.
2007-03-17 01:25:54 · 4 answers · asked by rara4h 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
I think your home sounds lovely, and there's no reason to change something that's working for you. You really shouldn't care what others will say. They don't get to decided what's best for your family. They don't even know what's best for your family! The worst thing you could do would be to get into a rent/mortgage that you can't afford. This would only bring stress and grief to your home which would weaken your family.
2007-03-17 02:17:56 · answer #1 · answered by Joy in the Morning 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sounds good, one problem, I dont know about where you live but its illeagal here for A family of 6 to live in a 2 bedroom appartment, Social services could step in if they got wind of it.
Im sorry we are kind of in the same situation.we have 4 kids too. we are in a nice 3 bedroom appartmen huge rooms but the rent is so high. we are looking at getting a 3 bedroom trailer for a few years so we can save up for a house.
good luck and congratulations on the baby.
2007-03-17 02:28:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Eighties where I live it is illegal for more then two children of the same sex to share a room. A boy and girl here can not share a room. I do hope you can stay were you are so you can get a nice home for you family to live in.
2007-03-17 03:17:54 · answer #3 · answered by JS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the beginning loosen up! Your bump will come easily with my 1st son it took me till ultimately i replaced into 6 months to have a bump and with this one my bump is even smaller it fairly is going to be nearer to 7 months, i be responsive to it complicated people not even understanding your pregnant yet basically bear in concepts, it fairly is way less skin stretching meaning infrequently any stretch marks, additionally meaning not lots of toddler fat to loose after the toddler! investigate the destiny and think of actual! you are able to not sense your uterus you are able to sense your muscle groups greater like the around ligament. Your toddler can not sense hungry, its your physique and did not your dr. inform you your meant to consume regardless in case you sense hungry or not, you will desire to have small nutrition and consistently be snacking little issues make a distinctive. quickly you need to be feeling your toddler pass exceedingly as some distance alongside as you're, so as a widespread time mom you in step with hazard be puzzling your muscle spams for the fairly toddler pass. additionally your going to have various soreness and muscle groups transforming into and increasing on your abdomen section of the the rest 4 months to return! additionally bear in concepts its alright to be apprehensive, scared and in touch, no question is a dumb question while it comprises being pregnant and characteristic your baby!
2016-12-19 07:29:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋