and that they would like to start hanging out agian? I mean i took all this time to get over it and then they just drop this bomb shell on me like this and they say like they care and that they wont do it agian i dont know what to do can some one please help me
2007-03-17 00:45:01 · 6 answers · asked by stonner_bear420 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't believe that "friend." Don't give them the chance to do it to you again. I had a friend that I let screw me over several times before I wised up! Ever here that saying.. Screw me once, shame on you , screw me twice shame on me!
You don't need friends like that. I learned the hard way, hope this helps!
2007-03-17 00:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by CAT LADY LOO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what that friend did to screw you over.
I think that you should try to forgive and see how things go but, thread carefully. Everybody needs a second chance every once in a while. Why don't you try to be the bigger person and be that second chance giver.
Hope things work out for the best.
2007-03-17 07:59:33 · answer #2 · answered by The Great One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't really matter what this person promises to do if you are not ready to trust them. I say if your fearful of the same ole behavior let them know that and keep communication open and clear. It is a situation where you may feel volnerable so, you need to know how far you are willing to go and what is the risk.
2007-03-17 07:52:08 · answer #3 · answered by val 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give them the satisfaction...if you agree, you're more than likely to have a wrapper around your head with the word "sucker" on it
2007-03-17 07:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you are happy they have changed, now they can go prove it with their next friend.
2007-03-17 08:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to be friends with them again that is up to you, but it will happen again
2007-03-17 07:50:43 · answer #6 · answered by txcatwoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋