Question about my wife.?

Question

My wife is very beautiful and I tell her everyday. She is insecure about her breasts and wants a boob job so she feels more comfortable wearing sexy lingerie. I was curious on the religious stand point on boob jobs and what the negative side affects are. I am kind of against cosmetic surgery unless an accident or something, but I want her to be happy. Also, is there anything I can do to convince her she doesn't need one. I tell her all the time she is beautiful and she is sexy and has a bomb shell body. I have been researching the TUBA method which is insertion throught the belly button.

Answer 1

First of all, your wife is very fortunate to have a husband like you.

Lots of women are not happy with their breasts. I'm one of them. I've had two kids and my breasts don't look the way they used to.. This is something exercise and diet cannot change, so I did consider a 'boob job'. I did quite a bit of research. There are definitely serious health risks (including for instance autoimmune disease) and side effects (like 'baseball breast' , the side effect that's delayed, when breasts get really hard). They are difficult to predict, there's always a chance that one's body would not accept this kind of intervention. On the other hand, there are women out there who are very happy with the results of the procedure.

It's sure important to be happy. But will a boob job really make your wife happy? (Assuming that everything goes fine.) I think that's the question she should ask herself. Because if the answer is no, it's not worth the risk.

I'm not going to have a boob job. I was already in doubt because of the risks, but what really did it for me is when my husband surprised me by saying: 'You want to have a boob job? Will it make you happy? Have a boob job!' (I was bugging him about my boob job for some time and he would always say that I didn't need one and tried to convince me that it wasn't good for me..) That really got me thinking and I almost got defensive, like 'I don't really need a boob job! My breasts look just fine!'

I think, in fact I know, that I'm just insecure in general, I'm trying to work on that. But a boob job is not the solution for me. I feel relieved that I realized it. And I do feel better about my breasts now, I like them just the way they are.

Answer 2

Why she wants to have cosmetic surgery? What her size? Why the boobs are for? Is it for you or for others? If for you then you know whether it need reshape or not. But is for others then please ask others?